Is it normal to be narcissistic and into someone at the same time?

Not sure if my bf is just not into me or hes just really into himself and it has nothing to do with how he feels for me. He doesn't really ask about me, what Im up to, hows my day going, nothing. However, he loves talking to me about his life, his job, his new projects, etc. I have noticed he does this in general to other people. He doesn't really ask much about them but he loves talking about what he knows, whats he done, and more. I'm just there watching him like "stop talking about yourself!" I would think this is a part of his personality and being into me would mean he would be a little different as in he would show more interest in me. But it seems like if he is into me, his personality doesn't change. He is still this narcissistic guy who thinks hes great and lacks interest in other people including his gf. I would like to ask him for support and help in my life, or career and other things but I feel like he wouldn't be interested-either because thats just who he is or because hes not into me. Another reason why I think hes just narcissistic is because hes pointed out his exes would complain about the same thing, about how he doesn't much emotion or interest. Every time I confront him about this he's just like "feels like my last relationships all over again." Sorry but it's true. Hes very indifferent with me and sometimes in general.