Is it normal to be mortified when your family knows you have sex?

I don't know how but my grandma knows I have sex and who I have it with.I'm 18 but I still live at home with my parents and I know eventually I'm going to have to tell my mother or my grandma will tell her for me. I just don't want my family to think I'm going to hook up with every single guy I hang out with. Part of me is like " I'm a responsible 18 year old who is in charge of her own sexuality and will not be ashamed" and the other part of me want's to go hide in my room and never talk to anyone again. Is it normal to feel this INCREDIBLY embarrassed?

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  • januarycurse

    in this situation, either your family will treat you like an adult or like a child. how you behave will in part determine how they treat you.

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  • qualityaristocrat

    Yes. This wouldn't have been as much of a problem before premarital sex was normalized.

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    • derpyderp

      Fuck off you repetitive cunt.

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      • qualityaristocrat

        Someone must speak truth to power.

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  • derpyderp

    It happens.
    Maybe different for guys though

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