Is it normal to be more sexually attracted to girls than guys?

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I'm a 19 year old girl in my second year of college. I've had many short term relationships with boyfriends and one girlfriend who I dated for 3 years. I guess you could consider me bi. However, school just started and I am not the type of person who seeks out girl friendships often because guy friends come much easier for me.

Yet I feel like I am more drawn to girls I meet in school and my classes now. I see other guys who are attractive sure but I'm not sexually attracted to them like I am to the girls I meet at school. Why am I more sexually attracted to the girls? Shouldn't I feel equally attracted to both sexes?

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  • 68newman
    13 years ago | pl

    You are definitely bi, and you have a preference for girls. I see nothing strange about that. You might meet a guy that knocks you off your feet, but in general you like women. I'm a guy and I don't blame you! :)

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  • CrazyNiteOwl
    13 years ago

    bi people tend to go through stages that change every so often. I get it alot, I'll like guys for 6 months then ill like a few girls n no guys for the next 6 months. It just really depends who your meeting, but there's nothing wrong with it, its perfectly normal. It'll probably change back soon n then change again later

    p.s. I'm sorry about all these dumb people commenting who can't read :)

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  • satyriconx15
    13 years ago

    if your bi thats common.. you like both but alot of bi people like one a little more then the other still

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  • highfallen
    13 years ago

    It's pretty normal, no one really likes both genders equally, we all have a preference for one or the other. I'm happily married to a wonderful guy but I still find that I'm more attracted to girls than guys and he's fine with it.

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  • khako
    13 years ago

    I think it's totally normal. I think most bi people tend to fall in love with the person who has the best qualities, regardless of their sex. This is really a wonderful thing. Perhaps we should all do this instead of limiting ourselves only to the best person (we can find) of a given sex.

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  • lilBlondeQTpie
    13 years ago

    Wow your story explains what Im goin through.. but Idk really if I am bi.. never been with a girl. But Im more attracted to em.
    And I have only guy friends..ha

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  • curiously
    13 years ago

    yea!!! i prefer girls over guys any day of the week!!!

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  • fullmetaljo
    13 years ago

    you shouldn't feel obligated to like any one sex equal or more, it's just preference. form a relationship with whoever you please if it's easier with girls than guys that's totally fine and vice versa. completely normal.

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  • xlostgirlx
    13 years ago

    You like one gender. More ^^
    Its normal

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  • LoveHaley
    13 years ago

    It's cayuse your bi Hun.(:

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  • LeinaBxtchh
    13 years ago

    Of course its normal. just be urself & dont give a fuck about ppl who may hate on u cause of this

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  • kendrag024
    13 years ago

    i feel the same way about girls, i think its perfectly normal <3

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    • mrjlc24
      13 years ago

      it is....because youre bi! lol

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  • ilovejesus
    13 years ago

    I don't think bi people can go to heaven I don't think it is worth it to be bi for your life and spend eternity in hell. If you think about it say there is no hell, nothing would happen to me or you but say there is heaven and hell, you are screwed and I am saved because of Jesus

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    • Schythl
      13 years ago

      Wow. You need help.

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