Is it normal to be mocked for being fit and trying to stay healthy?
I have quite a few friends, a few that I play sports with and a few that I go to college with (with some overlapping). The few I go to college with have a tendency to mock me.
When we're all eating lunch and I pull out a salad and some grilled chicken... they persist with asking me how I can't eat REAL food... they joke with me about how they'd hate to be anything but curvy and how I have nothing for men to look at... they tell me about how life isn't worth LIVING if you can't enjoy it and eat and drink whatever you want!
As a kid, I was very sickly. My parents took me to doctors and the doctors told us that there was nothing they could do. I was always suffering from colds, flus and vitamin deficiencies. My parents were obese, all of the food we had in the house was either frozen or canned, no fruits or vegetables.
I started going to college and did a work study program and I realized that I needed to be healthy to get through the studying and the working... having to be in bed for 3 weeks out of every month was going to hurt me. I googled "How to get healthy" and that's where my journey began. I went from being sickly my whole life to being healthy and fit and I am the happiest I have ever been. I'm practically reliving my childhood the way it should have been done, playing outside, studying, going places...
The thing is, I don't feel like I should HAVE to justify living a fit lifestyle. I don't criticize others' lifestyle or weight. Why do people want to make me feel so bad for being so happy and healthy? I haven't gotten sick but once in the past year! Just once!
Why are people like this? Are people like this everywhere or do I have just a shitty group of friends?