Is it normal to be miserable because of this?

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So, I met this girl Mandie two weeks ago. I saw her for the first time and I got this feeling I can't explain. I'm gonna assume that it's love at first sight. But, she hasn't been talking to me for like 4 days. I know she's on her period, (yuk) and she works 4 hours every night and she goes to school. I've been miserable for the past 3 days. I miss her a lot. Ive never experienced this before and I need to know if this is normal.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Whoa buddy, you need to rein yourself in a bit here or you're gonna throw a monkey wrench into the gears. It sounds like this girl has her shit together and doesn't have much time for socializing. If you come on too strong or needy, she's just going to send you packing.
    SLOW DOWN! Let her set the pace of your relationship at this point. She knows her schedule, she knows how much time she has to spend with a new friend. Let her know you are interested, but again, don't be pushy or go overboard with flowers or gifts. Then back off and see what happens. There's absolutely no way you can "make" her like you, so at the very least, be fun and interesting when you 2 are together, so she will miss you when you are apart.
    Good luck.

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    • NickMetalGod1
      9 years ago

      Very good advice, she knows I'm interested actually. I try to txt her everyday, with like a simple 'how are you? Or even a 'hey'', I actually just heard back from her this morning, and..well, I don't feel comfortable saying it on here publicly, so I'll private message you. Don't worry, she didn't leave me, it was something I did and didn't realize what I'd done.

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  • Electricman11376
    9 years ago

    Not not normal. Get a grip or ur gonna be in for a world of hurt.

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  • dasugaknows
    9 years ago

    How old are you?

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    • NickMetalGod1
      9 years ago

      I am19

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      • dasugaknows
        9 years ago

        Seems like the way a 13 year old would act, especially mentioning shes on her period and then saying yuk. If you really are 19, get a grip or she will think u r nuts.

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  • dudetalk
    9 years ago

    Wow... chill down bro... you sound like a girl on her first crush.
    yes, it is normal to miss a girl you had this huge feelings right away for... although it is not ok to go nuts here.
    advice? chill the fuck down, and DO NOT CALL OR TEXT without a good reason, invent a nice well reason, like for example "I'm going to see this new movie this weekend, wanna join me?" "I do, but I can't... I have to work ;(" "I feel you... , if you happen to clear things by then, don't be shy to txt me up :)"
    DO NOT COPY PASTE THIS!
    point is, you invite her to JOIN something YOU DO, and if she can't or don't want, you let her know that YOU STILL GOING, and cancel her "shy" feeling of taking back her answer but also put her on a timer to do so. (if she says yes than just go have fun)
    this is good because instead of you spending time thinking of her, she will sit thinking of you.
    and seriously just find some hobbies bro even video games or tv shows, stop thinking about her more than she does on you. (it is ok to think about her, just point it out to helpful places, instead of calling her, think in your head what do you want to do, with her, without her, whatever, and do it... you can later invite her to join)
    in fact it is good that you will only initiate a communication when you have some kind of plan or reason. (reason can be also "I need your help here, *math equation*, any clue?" "yes it's xxx"/"no... sorry" "k thanks, talk you soon ;)")
    one last thing! don't be heavy, yes you don't initiate a conversation, but every now and then when she calls you can pick up the phone and chat, if you can't or see that it's fitting to build more desire, replay "yeah! but call me in 5 ok?" or in a hour, you get the drift. ("I can't right now, but I will be, so be expecting and wait")
    good luck with it man, sounds fun, really wish turns well for you two ^o^

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