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I use to be friends with this new girl in my class. We used to play and she came to my sleep over. Shes a bit Heavy and has zits ALL over her face and her teeth are wierd so she spits alot. I guess Im not her friend anymore, maybe cuz I dont want her to ruin my reputation or cuz its nasty.
Don't worry about a "reputation", because when you leave High School it doesn't matter anyway. In the real world, whoever is the "most popular", doesn't even matter. Nobody keeps tabs on that sh**, except for teenagers. It shouldn't matter anyway. The question is if this girl is kind.
You shouldn't care about how she looks, and you shouldn't hang out with people that you think you'll benefit from just because they're pretty or get the most guys, etc. You need to see that the inside is what counts. She might not be the best looking girl in your school, or even in your town/city, but she deserves to be treated like a human as anybody else would too.
If your friends are gonna stop talking to you, or think any less of you for speaking with that girl, then they're not really your friends.
I could see why you think that some of the stuff she does is nasty, maybe you could just tell her, "Heya, I'm not trying to get on your case or anything, but could you not spit when I'm around? I just have a little thing about stuff like that. Please don't take offense to that, Its just kinda like a pet peeve for me." Something like that. But you really shouldn't be concerned with the way people look.
First of all you are too young for this site.
Secondly, your rep is nothing if you are mean to people based on their appearance.
High school isn't shit. None of that drama matters in the real world. Try working on becoming a better person instead of worrying what others think of you.
go a head a tease her, karmas a bitch a will get u down the road. maybe ur kids will be that girl in the future. hahaha probly
Everyone goes through this, it's natural to want put others down to want to make yourself feel better. All humans have these feelings. it's easier to do it with friends because you know their weaknesses and you can make it hurt more than a stranger, someone you don't know.
So you're focused on her weight and acne and how your reputation will suffer for being friends with her?
Apparently you are trying to find some way to justify how horrible and shallow you're being.
Your friend isn't the ugly one.