Is it normal to be married and love your best friend

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Well I have been married for 8 years and have kids and for probably 3 years now my best friend came back into my life we text everyday flirt sometimes we know everything about eachother including how we both had feeling for each other and still do I have never cheated in my life but I want to be with him without screwing up my marriage not because I love my husband but because of the kids oh by the way he is married too and she is my friend so what to do

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Based on 64 votes (21 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Do something about your marriage. Don't make things worse with an affair.

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  • akhoundmom
    14 years ago

    Just because it's normal doesn't mean it's okay.

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  • CoolerKing
    14 years ago

    But normal doesn't make it right.

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  • lowrider
    13 years ago

    Ask yourself how u would feel if someone was doing that to u behind your back and I'm sure you'll get your answer! IF u loved your husband and your husband and friend were flirting behind your back how would u feel towards both of them......not to good huh ! That's what I thought! So if your that dam dumb and disrespectful your answer is it's not normal under those conditions and don't do it!!!!!!!

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  • tbiz96
    13 years ago

    my mom did the same thing. it turned our world upside down. she and my father divorced and she immediately got with her best friend. my father wasn't perfect but man it killed me and my brothers. it still does. we've lost a lot of respect for my mom. my relationship with her has been very strained ever since.

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  • hengiska
    14 years ago

    Stop it please.. You will regret if you start an affair with your friend...

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  • mccl2278
    14 years ago

    Please by all means do not follow through with any of those feelings. Do your best to avoid flirting and to avoid being alone with your best friend at all costs. If you truly believe you two were meant to be then both of you get a devoice Then get married, if not then at all costs stop what you are doing with your best friend. Pray so that God can help you do the right thing, after all, He knows what is best.

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  • carmelle716
    14 years ago

    Don't cheat, u never know what u have until it's gone.

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