Is it normal to be mad at my friend or the guy?

Ok So me and my other 2 best friends like this guy. Both of them dated him before, I haven't bcuz I rejected him last year. So this year When he found out that I liked him, he told me he liked me back. He was all sweet to me and everything saying he cares about me and all that crap. Then he asked me out, and I didn't know what to do bcuz I really love my friends. But I also feel like I love him. I thought that he wasn't worth my friends so I said no. Then he went to my other friend and made out with her and everything but they didn't go out cuz she said no to him cuz of me. Then I find out yesterday that he's dating my other friend... Me and my 2 friends are really close. The one who's dating him knows That he played me and my other friend. And she knows we both like him. Should I be mad at her or the guy? Or at noone cuz I said no to him? Pls help I don't really know hat I'm. Feeling right now.. :(

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  • Justsomejerk

    It's pretty obvious he doesn't give a fuck about you.

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  • ccjigsaw

    You should be mad at noone but yourself honestly xS This guys sounds like a slime ball. You shouldn't be assoicating yourself with that kind of guy and neither should your friends. He doesn't LIKE any of you, you're all disposable object to him from the sounds of it. I'd be thanking my friend for saving me from turning into his personal jizz rag...

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  • RoseIsabella

    This guy probably wants to sample all three of ya'll.

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  • AintGoodEnough198

    Thanks Guyys! :) You'll Helped So Muchh And Guess what.. ): He Dumped Her Yeasterday. And She Didn't Really Give A Fuckk, She Just Cussed Him Out Then He Left Mad.. Lmao???

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  • emilydoll

    Sone good advice is to not take this personally,sheaf probably not doing this to offend you, it's not fair to think that but it is normal to think this guy might not be the best bf but who knows. Bottom line is you said no so don't let your jealousy hold you also you don't want to be with that guy! 3 girls one by one? Cmon. Get your head together love!

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  • hottmess

    Don't be mad at your friend. What she did was very low but it sounds like she is going to get hurt more in the long wrong just by dating this doucher. Let karma take care of it, and be there for her when she's crying over him.

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  • SharP

    Don't invest feelings into a douche like this. He sounds like one of my friends and he won't settle for anyone, let alone you. Sorry, that's just the way some guys are.

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