Is it normal to be mad at my fiance for doing the right thing?

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My fiance and I went to Wyoming from Michigan in February to be with his family who moved there from MI. His mom told my fiance she had cancer, still not sure if that's the exact diagnosis or not, his sister says that she never heard that it was actually cancer but that's why we went out there, she said she was sick. I stayed six weeks and moved back home to Michigan to finish school and carry on with my life here (we kind of just picked up and left). He has a good job in Wyoming that Michigan couldn't really offer him and his family wants him to stay. When we talk I feel so mad and resentful that I take everything out on him. I feel terrible for it but I just wish that he missed me and would give me a date he'd be home but he only says "sometime in the summer". It just seems like they finally convinced him to go out there and now they're his and I miss him SO much it tears me up. I cry daily. Is it normal to be SO upset/mad/resentful that we're in different states?

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    12 years ago

    I think it is normal to be bitter that you can't spend as much time with him as you want to but he IS doing the right thing. He is choosing his family first, and making an admirable decision.

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  • shygrl79
    12 years ago

    Keep up communications. Try not to "fight" or to take out tour frustrations on him. (easier said than done sometimes I know.) Let him know often how much you miss him but love how he is supporting and taking care of his family. It's almost summer for schools. Discuss going out to visit him as well as him coming to see you. Keep talking with each other. Find a way tk let him know how you feel with out accusing him of anything and see what happens from there.

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  • solidman
    12 years ago

    Don't worry I'm sure he will comeback to you, just make sure you can keep contact with him.

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