Is it normal to be mad at my bf for being weirded out by gay son?

My boyfriend and I were talking about kids when he brought up the possibility of a bisexual/gay son. He said he would feel weird if we had a gay or bisexual son. Im bisexual and i know he has no problem with it. I dont understand why he feels this way. Im not sure if Im mad because i think everyone should not be judged or because im bisexual. Please leave a comment with gender, sexual orientation and thoughts... Is it normal for me to be angry with him for saying this?

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    I'd welcome a gay son with fashion sense. I have none. he could take me clothes shopping.

    And if I teach him correctly with the whole condoms and wrapper your tapper thing, I won't have to worry about him dying of AIDS or ANY possibility that some pregnant little whore will be knocking on my door wearing 6 lbs of makeup and a jugallo shirt looking for my son becuz he dun left hurr nd she figurd out dat my son HAS to be the daddy becuz she didn fuk no one else dat week and being disappointed that my son has such horrible taste in women.

    Or my daughter coming home pregnant and bringing home her white milk, gangsta hardcore 4 lyyyfe baby daddy and wondering where the fuck I went wrong.

    It'd be a win for me. I hope they're gay, no raising bastard grandbabies for me. I don't need flesh and blood grandkids, they can adopt African babies for all I care. Or fuck, don't have kids at all. I might not want to be a 70 year old baby-sitter.

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  • SometimesNaive

    Female, Pansexual
    depending on his age thats not an uncommon response. Even now, my father refuses to believe that there are bisexual men. He does think bisexual women exist. Hopefully your partner would eventually learn to accept him and not shame him for who he is.

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  • Ibelievethis

    I've not been blessed with a son. I've always wanted a boy. Idolise my fabulous daugher as I do, there is always an amazing bond between mother and son, isn't there, but I have a gorgeous nephew, like the way you get mommy's boys, he's an auntie's boy and I love him unconditionally I would stand by my boy if he was hetrosexual, homosexual, or bio. Therefore I don't blame you for saying you'd be mad if your partner did not accept your future son if he was gay. xx

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  • bulbie

    Female - bi.

    i think it's normal for you to be upset. It's in no way accepting of homo or bisexuality to be totally cool with you being bi (two women together is a turn on for most men) but against a son of yours being bi or gay. It's exactly the same issue, so to call a man wrong for it but a woman right for it is just wrong. I'd be happy whatever my child's sexual orientation was. A true parent wants their child to be happy whatever their chosen path in life. Sexuality is the LEAST of our worries.

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  • ccjigsaw

    Female- striaght.
    My boyfriend is the same, afraid of having a gay son. I think it's a common fear for men.

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  • blaster

    My ex was bi so that made life heaps of fun, we both loved looking at other girls . She understood the temptation of other girls for a guy too - me .
    But if I had a gay son to be honest I'd be really disappointed. I think it'd have to be an acceptance over time thing for any parent because what parent wouldn't in all honestly prefer their kids were straight .

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    it's best you discuss this now before you start having children.

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  • pansyfugufish

    Sex: Female- Gender: Androgynous- Orientation: Indiscriminate/ pansexual

    I feel you. that is why I only date bi/ pan ppl. People who are not bi say they understand... but they do not. What they mean to say is they tolerate within limiting circumstance.

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