Is it normal to be mad at a guy that likes you for your body?

56% Normal
19 Comments

I broke up with my boyfriend about three weeks ago. He was everything a girl could ever want. He was, funny, sweet, and smart. So why did i break up with him? I broke up with him because he was to touchy. i am not a prude, but i will not do something that i think is wrong. he kept asking me for my body, and after a while i became annoyed. He would make me feel guilty for not giving him what he wanted and i finally was done feeling guilty, so i broke up with him. He was really mad and he made me feel sad, but i told him i was done. the next couple of days were ok, but then he started texting me and asking me back and i told him that i didn't like him anymore. he said he loved me, and i told him that if he didn't respect my decisions then he couldn't have loved me enough.

so i will ask you is it wrong to be mad at him?

Voting Results
56% Normal
Based on 72 votes (40 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 19 )
  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    I think you did the right thing too. More girls should be like you.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    2
    2
  • poon_jabber
    9 years ago

    good for u, gf

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • magicpears
    14 years ago

    No its perfectly normal to be mad at him.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • cupcake_wants
    9 years ago

    he's a sleaze ball. Good 4 u!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Lucyg123
    12 years ago

    You couldmtell him why you broke up with him

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • georgienne
    13 years ago

    This guy was hardly a pig. He was very likely hinting that he wanted to fool around. See, sex is part of a relationship, and you didn't seem to participate much.
    You weren't fulfilling his wants and needs; I think you lost a good thing.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • so_damn_unpretty
    13 years ago

    he could very well have loved you. some guys are just touchy. you should have talked to him first.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • jean
    13 years ago

    P.S.
    Whet he had was a sexual atraction for you not love

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • BOYracer88
    13 years ago

    just find someone who wants you for you cos that is what you realy want init

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Passionate
    14 years ago

    cut off his dick, then ask if he still wants you. if he says yes sew it back. yes, i am kiddin

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    he didn't love you, the pig wanted sex.

    good girl, you did the right thing!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • theredwolf
    14 years ago

    well..to be honest i understand why your mad but at the same time i get what the guy was doin to. you see a good healthy relationship i think is 30% physical 70% personality which means he is attracked to "you" than your body. however in this case it's 100% physical. a sex buddy if you will. you wanted a emotional relationship. he wanted sex. i mean it sucks but it's common in 60% of us males (mostly younger). though i feel i must distance myself from that 60% somehow but thats another story

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
      -
    • imjustme
      14 years ago

      I get what you are saying, but guys will take whatever they can get. I let him touch me most of the time, like i would let him put his arm around me, put his hand on my knee. He would even move his hand up more, but that isnt the point. I did have some type of physical relationship with him too. its just that i cant give him more and more, because i only have so much to give. I just dont want guys to just like me for my body

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
        -
      • theredwolf
        14 years ago

        @imjustme well i suppose thats more accurate. it also depends on age like if ur in high school or jr high then yea that kids just honry lil bastard will grow more mature hopefully but if you guys are like 20 or somethin then maybe he's used to getting more? idk...

        Comment Hidden ( show )
        0
        0
          -
        • imjustme
          13 years ago

          yea i"m only in high school. He has a new girlfriend now, but he still texts me saying he loves me. I want to tell his girlfriend but she seems so happy with him, and she is a really good friend of mine

          Comment Hidden ( show )
          0
          0
            -
          • imjustme
            13 years ago

            that is the exact same thing that is happening to me now

            Comment Hidden ( show )
            0
            0
  • BOYracer88
    14 years ago

    you did the right thing by me, he should love you for who you are, a hot body is a bonus. it is wrong to guilt trip someone into sex, it is your body and he should have respected that more the fool him, fair play to you

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • imjustme
    14 years ago

    Thank you. I often feel like i make the wrong decisions. So it helps if i can have support. When i find i guy i want him to like me for me, sure i'd like him to think im a little pretty, but i will not like me because of the way my body looks.

    its even more stupid because when i told him im not doing what he wanted he asked me if i wanted him bored. that made me so mad because if he was bored he could have left. he was making me miserable anyways

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • wastingmytime333
    13 years ago

    You're an idiot, that's the first thing guys notice about a girl.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    -1
    -1