Is it normal to be late if it is your first time?

I previously had sex on the 13th, and i was due for my period this week, and i still have not got it...a condom, birth control, and 'pulling-out' was used... i have been getting cramps, and back pains, like during my period..
is it normal to be late? what do you suggest i do?

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Based on 264 votes (168 yes)
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Comments ( 11 )
  • joybird

    You should be ok with the contaception used but you may be just stressed about it - which will make you late. Sounds like it's on its way though with the pains etc.

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  • averageman

    gutted for the guy! condom and pull out? damnnnnnn

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    • averageman

      sex is important in a relationship. if a girl FORCED me to do this i would get bored, sleep with someone else or leave. which either comes first :)

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    • LooksLikeLove

      LOL I love you!

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  • stranger1990

    I got it guys! Thanks for the feedback :)

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  • stranger1990

    Its fine now. you guys could stop commenting.

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  • lovephotos

    Same thing happened to me! Apparently stress can change when your due so just relax and don't worry it will come:)

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  • 9Tailsfan

    Glad your OK. I know for a fact that any type of stress can throw off your cycle.

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  • treemong66

    I'm sure it's just stress

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  • Hmmaybe

    Don't use "pulling-out" it has too low a success rate to be safe. In 1 in 3 cases it won't work. You may have got lucky this time, but you won't necesserily in the future.

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    • NocturnePonyFan

      Well she also used a condom and BC, so... But yeah, the pull-out method alone is bullshit.

      Anyway, to the OP, glad you got it finally! :-D

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