Is it normal to be kinky?
s&m etc........ whats your thing? are you ashamed? proud? would you tell your friends?
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s&m etc........ whats your thing? are you ashamed? proud? would you tell your friends?
I find myself being quite kinky, to the extreme sometimes. There is nothing wrong with exploring your sexuality and your body, it is a natural thing. I am not ashamed of the things I have experimented with, and will talk about it openly with anybody that wants to know. This being said, I don't see any reason to go around telling people who don't want to know either lolz.
It should be normal. If a friend found my bag of goodies I would tell them. There's no explaining away a bag of duct tape, rope, a latex mask, and a fake bloody butcher knife, although the knife was part of a Halloween costume for Dexter so maybe I could get away with it.
I like some elements of BDSM. I wouldn't say I'm ashamed nor proud; if someone asked specifically, I'd tell them.
The last one night stand I had turned quite extreme, I ended up beating the shit out of a girls ass as hard as I could and she loved it.
I mean, I'd talk about it if it came up, not go flaunting about it. I'm into a good bit of kink myself. BDSM, especially the bondage aspect, denial/forced orgasm, male penetration, mild slave/master stuff, exhibitionism. And we're free love, group play is always welcome. XD
Our bodies are wild, interesting things that can be aroused in a great variety of ways. Why not enjoy them? Nothing to be ashamed of.
I have had quite a bit of fun with most of those, but forced orgasm is something I have never played with before. How exactly does that work?
Basically keeping the submissive on the edge or pretty close to it, and telling them they can't finish til you say so. Then push them over the edge while they're trying to restrain it.
Or I guess it's similar, I figured out playing with myself how to make my clit so sensitive, it's almost impossible to hold a toy to it, but feels amazing. XD
I would tell my friends if I thought they wanted to know, but some things are private and I don't feel a need to tell the whole world about it. I'm a little kinky, but not extremely so.