Is it normal to be kicked in the balls for complimenting a woman?

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My father was recently kicked in the balls, testicles, with brutal force for complimenting a beautiful woman at the beach. He was just complimenting her, whats wrong in that?

At least nobody was watching, my dad screamed from the impact and shock, he doubled over and throw up, he was struggling with sharp pains coming from the testicles and from his stomach! Minutes later he lied face down in the sand with two hands inside his swimming brief shorts for an hour. I waited.

I told him that is perfectly okay to cry, scream, i would have passed out but he didn't said anything. i played a couple games on my phone while he recovered and i couldnt help it, i had to take a photo of him lying there in sand with my phone. Good or bad memories are always memories.

When we got home i told my mom he was hit with a ball in the nuts.I wasn't going to turn in my dad because he wasn't hitting on that woman, besides he had enough for the day, week, month.

His testicles swollen up, he had to see a doctor and take meds for the swelling.

Being kicked between the legs is so unhuman and painful and it can castrate a man! Why do people do that?

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  • megadriver
    9 years ago

    Dude, what did your dad say to that woman?
    No way in hell a woman would attack a man brutally for a compliment, unless she is some pathetic, crazy, man-hating feminist. Then her loss. Such people are sad that nobody wants to fuck them XD

    My comment came out rough and sharp, but it is true. Feminists, not all men are bad. And also before you judge someone else, take a look at yourselves. Wise Bulgarian saying.

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    • bleach_baby
      9 years ago

      What an annoying, narrow minded comment.

      Most feminists don't hate men. Feminism is about thinking men and women are equal and that women shouldn't serve or be subjugated by men. Any woman with self respect should identify as feminist. You should take your own advice and look at yourself before you judge others - feminists don't hate men just because they don't want to be owned by them.

      I'm a feminist, and I love men. I have great, healthy relationships with them and I certainly wouldn't kick a middle-aged man in the balls. However, as a woman, I will point out that it can be very annoying when men feel they have the right to comment on your body and looks all the time, even if they're trying to be nice.

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      • megadriver
        9 years ago

        Long comment summed up in a nutshell at end of comment

        So where exactly did you get this from? I said she must be (the woman that kicked the guy in the balls) a man-hating feminist. Cause there are women there, radical feminists that hate men. I know one personally. There are feminists that don't hate men. There are feminists who love men, feminists who hate women. Everything is possible.

        I agree, we are equal. Men, women, we are all human. I only dislike the type of women that think it's "modern" to have their man do everything, or argue over insignificant little details. (Housework stuff aside. I live in Germany, and there were protests where I live. Feminists were protesting on why the little figure on traffic lights is a man and not a woman. There were also feminists that were protesting that the proposed woman-traffic light figure shouldn't have a dress, cause that's sexist... How daft must they be? Does it matter? It's a stick figure! It doesn't have a gender. It's there to tell you when to go and when to stop!) Back on track:

        This new extreme way of thinking: Men must do all the housework, take care for the kids, cook and serve meals, while the woman goes shopping, or to the cafe with friends. That's rubbish!
        I share my chores with my girlfriend, but for example, I do expect a warm meal, when I come back from work, since I work till 5pm and my girlfriend is home at 3pm. If it was the other way 'round, I wouldn't mind cooking, or cleaning. I love cooking. It's a type of craftsmanship! I cook on weekends.
        But her radical-feminist lady friend, constantly reminds her and me that I should be the one cooking, cause women shouldn't cook, cause it's not 1950... and that my girlfriend shouldn't do my laundry...
        Hello? Living together much? Nah, that concept is too extreme for her to understand.

        Another is the compliment thing. When I say you look nice, or that's a lovely dress... I don't mean "Me man, me have boner, me have sex with u!!!11ONE"
        I'm just being nice and saying that something is nice can not be taken as an insult, or be annoying.
        When someone tells me I have a nice shirt, or compliments my car, I fell nice. I don't go all "compliments are bad" on the person.

        And finally: I do look at myself, before I judge others. As said: I am talking about the woman in the poll and other psychos that think a modern woman must have a man-slave. Neither must be a slave to the other. They should share the work, the problems, the joys, etc... It's why it's called a relationship.

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        • Voodoojim
          9 years ago

          Dramaaaaaaa! I definitely think a lot of women tend to have a distorted perception of feminism - I understand it started full force with serious attitude to boot and it definitely needed to, but today many men and women share a view of equality and don't pay attention to the gender of another, however many women still maintain a hatred for men and call themselves feminists! Typical bloody women ay? I think they're all just on their periods... (Didn't expect it to end like that huh? Me neither.)

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        • bleach_baby
          9 years ago

          I understand what you meant better now. In your last comment, you said 'Feminists, not all men are bad,' not 'Man-hating Extremist Feminists, not all men are bad'. So you accidentally generalised normal feminists (ie women who want equality, of the type described in both our comments) in with extremists (I would not classify anyone who is fighting for female superiority as being a feminist, as this is not a part of general feminism).

          Complimenting someone you know is very different from randomly complimenting a stranger. Obviously it depends to a certain extent how something is said and what exactly is said, but basically shelling out random compliments to women you don't know is intrusive. If I went up to you in the street and was like DUDE, YOUR ASS LOOKS GREAT you might like it...or you might find it invasive and creepy, especially if it happened to you all the time. You don't always want people to make it clear that they are judging your body. Again, when you know someone it's different and completely fine - but if a stranger came up to me at the beach when I was in my bikini and commented on my looks or body, even if it was favourable, I wouldn't like it. It's like, I'm just here in public existing, I'm not waiting for someone to rate me out of ten, d'you know what I mean?

          When this happens, I'm always polite, but I don't like it and I wish guys wouldn't do it.

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          • megadriver
            9 years ago

            Well, to be honest you wouldn't compliment (truthfully) my ass, cause all the beer, snacks and parties this summer certainly haven't done my ass and stomach any good XD

            'Gotta hit the gym again...

            On a serious note:
            I wouldn't care. Some random girl comes up to me and says "You look hot". Fine! It's cool. I'd feel good about it for a bit and then forget about it and move on.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    What did your dad say to this chick? The curiosity is killing me.

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    • peter_green
      9 years ago

      probably nothing because it probably didnt happen

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      • RoseIsabella
        9 years ago

        :-)

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  • KeepsakeDoll
    9 years ago

    You could've charged the girl for assault. Should've gotten her to pay for all the medical bills and such.

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  • Zalenn
    9 years ago

    Poor guy.

    I had a friend get slapped for telling a woman she had beautiful eyes at a pub while in school, so i'd believe it. This is not normal however.

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  • noobpoet
    9 years ago

    Reverse the genders.

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  • Fall_leaves
    9 years ago

    Well that was mean. Who knows maybe she was pissed at her bf or another guy and had enough with men and took it out on the first guy that spoke to her. That doesn't make it right though.

    I wouldn't kick a guy in his junk unless I felt threatened.

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  • charli.m
    9 years ago

    It is not ok to physically harm someone in any way except in case of self defence.

    If that happened to any guy I know, I would be encouraging them to press charges. Even if he had made a lewd comment (I know you saod it was just a compliment) causing what could possibly be irreparable damage is assault and it should be treated as such.

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  • jodi1955
    4 years ago

    it every womans right to kick a guy for any reason.

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  • Alkomb
    8 years ago

    For some reason, feminists supports that crap.

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    What exactly did he say? Was it one of those "do them legs go all the way up?" Because most old men tend to make inappropriate remarks to beautiful scantily clad young women. As well as grabbing them and stuff. He probably deserved to be slapped, but not that. I'd have shot that bitch In the kneecap for doing that to my dad. Especially if it REALLY was for no reason

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  • hairyfairy
    9 years ago

    There are some "compliments that are sexist & insulting to women, men might not see it like that, but maybe she just took it tje wrong way from how it was intended.

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  • Asstastics
    9 years ago

    Next time go to a nude beach. People are nicer. And the women would rather talk about professional sports than have you compliment them.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    I bet she was a misandry feminist. Not normal what she did. It was either an overreaction and/or that she hates men. I really think that he should try pressing charges. Absolutely terrible. I hope he heals.

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