Is it normal to be just friends?

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So my best friend(girl) and I have known each other for 5 years and I fell in love with her the moment I saw her. She says she loves me and I say I love her(but like siblings). Basically I've been friendzoned by the girl I wanna spend the rest of my life with. Here's the catch, she has told me she wonders what itd be like if we kissed and we agreed if we're both virgins by the time were sophomores in college, that we will go on a vacation and lose it to each other... It then turned into as long as I remain in good shape, we're going to go on the vacation and have sex. Does she have feelings for me? Or is it normal? Any help is appreciated

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  • omg12
    12 years ago

    She doesnt like you! Am a girl... She just wants a friendship and to not be a virgin by the time she is in college, which is perfectly normal...

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  • BluntsRolled
    12 years ago

    Shes trailing you along, don't give her so much pull, find other girls to chill with aka dont put all your eggs in one basket, she will just get your hopes up and shatter your dreams.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I don't know..long lasting relationships and marriages quite often come from friendship. My wife of 24 years is by far the best friend I've ever had.

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  • sac66064
    12 years ago

    She doesn't have feeling for you. And I hate to tell you this but even if the two of you are still virgins by that time, she is not going to sleep with you. EVER. Trust me, i'm 30 and have been through this kind of thing lots of times. You don't love her. I know you won't take my advice BUT YOU SHOULD. Forget about her in that way and put all the energy that you spend trying to make her like you (because i know you do) into trying to get another girl to like you. Its more fun if there is a potential reward at the end and you'll meet (guaranteed) someone you like even better than her.

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