Is it normal to be jealous of every girl that talks to my boyfriend?

Hi, I'm a girl and me and my bf have been going out for little over 3 months now but it seems every girl in the school finds him more attractive now that he's taken. All kinds of girls are flirting with him and it drives me mad! What should I do?

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  • LOUi_CUDi

    ignore them .. Is he flirting back then u have a problem.

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  • Pepper

    Nothing is as sexy as a confident woman. Start acting all jelly and stuff and watch your relationship go downhill.

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  • catywompus

    Jealousy is not a good thing. Females from high school age thru their 40's find my husband attractive. I know he's hot! It bugs me sometimes that he gets female attention everywhere he goes, but he's not doing anything wrong. And I can't really say anything anyway because I get plenty of male attention wherevr I go. You shouldn't worry too much

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  • hardonlife

    Burn the muddabitches!

    Just kidding, ignore them, he is yours.

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  • istrawberry

    As long as he don't flirt back, then you shouldn't be jealous. Just be happy that you're dating him. If anything, they should be the jealous ones. If your boyfriends flirting back, then FUCK YEAH, you should be pissed off.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    So what if they flirt?

    Remember... NO ONE can steal a man.... unless he WANTS to be stolen.

    However, getting mad every time another girl talks to him... may just drive him away.

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  • kittenlittle

    just ignore the girls, they like making other girls jealous so they feel better about themselves

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  • This ALWAYS happend to me and I hated every single one of those girls that flirted with my boyfriend but i just acted like a didnt care and the girls stopped :)

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  • Crisp

    Just smile nicely at the girls...it shows them you are confident with your relationship. If they see it upsets or bugs you they will play on it. A friendly smile can shooo them away.

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  • stonecutters93

    You shouldn't worry about it. He's dating you not them. Women want what they can't have and now that he's unavailable it makes him more attractive. Like Loui said if he flirts back you have a problem.

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  • Fammer3

    It's Normal But You Shouldn't Write Like This.

    Seriously though.. It's only normal to dislike that, but if your bf doesn't flirt back you should have nothing to worry about.

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  • its complicated maybe you could pull their hair or say Fuck Off behind his back or make a scene and walk away in a huff lol if he follows its ok if not the crowd can swallow him, ...

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  • emilydoll

    And be more confident. You're his choice not them. Give them something to envy by not caring and just being happy with him. Main point is not to make them jealous but while you're just living life and being carefree and confident in who you are, you'll strike envy in other girls. You seriously shouldn't care so much but def talk to your guy.

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  • emilydoll

    You should talk to him about it and tell him makes you really uncomfortable to tge point that you can't deal with it and ask him if hed avoid these girls to get the message across to tge girls that he is so not inteterested.

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  • ***1,2,3,***

    No he's not (thank god)

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