Is it normal to be jealous of a friend because she lost her virginity?

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Well, I'm 17 years old and I'm a virgin. I don't think it is weird, but I would like it other way. I had a boyfriend (now ex boyfriend) and although we are over now I wish I had lost my V-card with him, because I'm afraid I will be the last one of my group who will lose it or that I will turn 30 and I will still a virgin. A few days ago one of my best friends told me She went all the way with her boyfriend. And instead to feel happy for her I felt jealous. Off course I didn;t told her I was jealous, but I want to know if this feeling is normal and I want not to be longer afraid.

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  • trickydick
    10 years ago

    I can help

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    sure sure it's the "cool" thing now - you're not a real woman until you have sex right?

    /sarcasm

    Don't be so quick to rush into getting laid. Sure it's fun... but it's better if you're with someone you really love. Seriously.

    never rush into stuff or settle for less... just because someone else you know decided to start.

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  • bekkiscool
    12 years ago

    There's no need to rush or be impatient. Don't put sex on a pedestal. It's just sex. There's honestly nothing special about it if you remove any type of pedestal/glorification. Please don't have sex 'only to have sex', though. Especially for some petty insecurities.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Why don't you forget the silly notion that it matters?

    It's nothing to be ashamed of or anything to be rushed, being sensible and mature about sex is better than thinking it's a competition.

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  • Frosties
    12 years ago

    There should be no stigma about losing it. Whatever you do, don't have sex just because of what you think others will think of you. Have sex because you want to, when you are ready, and when you have the opportunity to do so in a way you are comfortable with.

    You only lose it once, and you have a lifetime to regret it if you do it for the wrong reasons.

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  • Alex_Gee
    12 years ago

    I'm probably the wrong person to advise u on this coz I lost mine really young but going off my friends reactions, i think yh its totally normal for u to feel like that coz most ppl over hype how good it was. truth is that u'r first time is never great and u'r friend might have had a shit experience but she won't wanna admit it to u. I wish I had waited until I was older but it was different for me. Some ppl like to plan their first time and others i know say it was best just to have a shag with a random because it meant nothing. Personally i think u should hang on until u'r ready and u'r comfortable with the guy u go with. most guys just want the conquest and won't give a fuck how u feel or if u enjoy it and to be honest when its u'r first u want a guy who will take it slow and help u learn whats comfortable so u cum better. Just dont rush into it and don't believe everything u'r friend says - it takes 4-5 good shags to learn how to do it right. Hope this helps sweetie. Ax

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