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This friend of mine is really beautiful and has great taste in music and all the other FEW guys that have good taste in music seem to like her( or well talk more to her) AND I am just like well alright
I hate when people say "taste in good music". Everyone has a good taste in music. They just like what they like. You can't force yourself to like a certain kind of genre. And you can't just go around calling your favorite genre "the best". Everyone has an opinion. All music is good music. Everyone likes something. Come on.
Liking the same genre of music doesn't exactly mean you are romantically compatible.
Don't be so closed minded. It isn't all about music. I hate my partners music but we get on like a house on fire.
Jealousy is terrible. I am one of the most jealous people I know and it has caused me so many problems. I finally found that I am so much happier by just being myself. There will be people who like you for who you are and your qualities, and there will be people who hate you for the same reasons. In the end you will be happy by being true to yourself. I had some friends like the one you speak of, and I tried to be like them and was miserable because I was not true to myself. I said I liked music I really didn't care for to turn the heads of the guys in our click, I pretended to enjoy partying and getting wild and going out when really I am a hermit. Finally I just decided I was too stressed and exhausted from trying so hard to be accepted by these few people. I finally realized the world is a huge place and there are tons of different kinds of people in it. I decided to be me, and to hell with those who didn't like it. In the end, I have more friends now than I did when I was a "poser", and a husband who adores me and two beautiful little girls. Not to mention the girls I was trying to be like are pilled out whores now and only used for the one thing all the guys wanted to use them for anyway. By being yourself you may have to find a new group of people to hang with that fit who you really are and you will be happier, I guarantee it.
I used to feel this way; because all of my friends are incredibly beautiful.
Then I realized, hey, there are plenty of guys that think I'm beautiful, can't we all just be beautiful? Not one better than the other?
Some guys will be into her, and some will be into you. Its how life is. Embrace yourself.
You just have to realize that no one has it all good. You're gonna realize someday that she either has some serious flaws, whether in appearance, personality, or whatever. You shouldn't wish her to have problems but I can bet you anything she does.
No, it's not normal. BTW, you don't have to be like her. If you try to copy her, by liking her music, looking like her, you're just going to be plain miserable. Stick to what the others posted on here- especially who'sthatgirl (registered person on IIN). Be yourself, and it'll be alright for you in the future. GL :) Take care
A FEW guys will turn her into a dong pinata, if you catch my drift, so I'd say you should count your lucky stars.