Is it normal to be jealous in this situation?

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Alright now where to start:
My girlfriend is flirty.
The majority of her friends are guys.
She talks to them more than me.
She can easily make a guy like her.
When listing shoulders to cry on, a guy friend comes first.
She doesn't care about my jealousy.
She hugs them more often than me.
She constantly talks about how hot Korean guys are, I'm Japanese.
She constantly talks about her previous crush was and how she was like "feafhieaofheoia" about him. She's never said that about me.Ever.
She constantly tells me or asks guys to be the best of something(ex. Will you be my best friend forever?) and then sounds like I'm not the best.
I can do nothing about it. She appears to not care enough.
I feel like punching a wall until one of us breaks.
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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    No it's normal. She sounds like a little skank. If she cared for you she would drop all of the male friends as soon as your relationship started out of respect. Move on she isn't worth it.

    Also be glad I'm giving good advice to you seeing as ur a jap.

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  • Loh
    11 years ago

    Answer: Yes it is normal.
    Solution : dump her.

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  • blink281
    12 years ago

    Dump her skank

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    she likes attention..maybe she wants all of your attention on her

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  • Whitneyhouston
    13 years ago

    It's normal to be jealous. She's going out of her way to make you jealous. Time to move on, you don't need that. She's an attention whore and you obviously don't want to put up with that.

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  • Jen118584
    13 years ago

    Your girlfriend is an attention whore. She doesn't care about you, she just uses you as a prop to get more attention from other guys.

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  • lovesexandturtles
    13 years ago

    You're probably in high school judging by the post. In high school, yes it's normal. As a grown adult, no it's not normal. Just dump her. Her personality is ugly and it sounds like you deserve much better.

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  • ashelizax
    13 years ago

    it sounds to me like she's purposely trying to make you jealous, which indicates immaturity and poor self-esteem. that's not anyone that anybody should want to waste their time on. clearly, you're not happy. i'm sure you'd be happier without her.

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  • stillwondering
    13 years ago

    She sounds like a jerk who doesn't care about your feelings. If you respect someone as a person, you don't put them through this. Let her know it makes you uncomfortable and that you want her to stop. If she doesn't I suggest you get rid of her. She sounds toxic. I have a similar-ish relationship question on my site, if anyone could take the time to help me with it... please.

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  • Bleach2476
    13 years ago

    Completely normal. And I agree with serene, She's no good for you.

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  • Arekkuzanda
    13 years ago

    Thanks for the advice, the odd thing is, she's completely down to earth, but she just doesn't seem to care on the subject.

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