Is it normal to be jealous if your gf holds hands and kisses girls?

my girlfriend is bisexual and shes been telling me about her holding hands and kissing other girls and im not sure if i should be jealous. if it was other guys then yea i would be but i dont know how to react with other girls. any help?

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  • (s)aint

    I'm bisexual too, I would not have fooled around with other girls if the man I am with didn't approve of it. Cheating is cheating regardless if it's with the same gender or the opposite gender.

    I'm however used to guys claiming they really don't mind if I fool around with other girls, so I do this but I'm always cautious in the start and rather ask twice than assuming it's all good to go.

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  • Fall_leaves

    She sounds immature and more like she's trying to show off. Yeah I think you definitely should consider the possibility that she could leave you for another woman.

    If you're still in highschool she probably just tells you because she thinks it's "hot" and wants attention. I'm in my mid twenties and there are still women my age who think it's cute when they're drunk to makeout in the middle of the bar to show off.

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  • zoffix

    It sounds like a perfect time to ask for a threesome :)

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  • Reaper101

    Girl or not she don't need to be going around holding hands and exchanging saliva that's what you're there for! I'd be pissed girl, guy, dog, watermelon I don't care what it is clearly I'm not the one you want to be around cause you're going in the bushes to make out

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  • Couman

    I don't think there's a right or wrong to this. You feel how you feel. If it bothers you, then you should tell her, and if she values her relationship with you, she'll respect that. But if you're okay with your gf exploring that part of her sexuality on the side, well that's cool too.

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  • mountain-man82

    If it bothers you then you might wanna tell her that. You might also wanna watch it because if she is bisexual then she could leave you for another woman. Ive heard of that happening.

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  • joker69676

    Double standards, society says its okay for girls to do that. Because being bi is considered hot. I wouldnt stand for it. Cheating is cheating. Id move on, i wouldnt be able to take it. Ive dated guys who wanted me to do things like that, and it honestly hurt a little that they didnt care if i cheated, and they could sit there and watch like a mini porno. Ah yes, that was the rule. Id get upset when they suggested it and say, " youd seriously be okay with that!?" And i got, "only if i can watch." And they werent kidding. :/

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  • Dantevus

    It's the same as if you did those things. Homosexuals and bisexuals, etc are people just like everyone else with the same feelings and desires. Her holding hands and kissing other girls is no different than if you did it.

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  • thegypsysailor

    Jealousy is a worthless and wasted emotion. The only thing it can do is drive a wedge between two people. Grow up.

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