Is it normal to be jealous if you werent you're bf/gf's first?

being jealous is a normla reaction. but don't let this destroy what you two share.

I wasn't my girlfriends first and I wish I had been, but nothing can be done.

This is a natural human reaction, you feel it just because you feel it, not because someone tells you it's wrong or whatever. And this is before these comments telling you that it shouldn't bother you, and eventually you'll get used to it (desensitization). And you want to know why you feel that way? Because as a natural human emotion, it works alongside the natural law and order of things. You know what that means? That a past does matter. That sex means forging a bond, a soul tie; and who would want someone who has feelings for others? Perhaps she is young in this demonic world therefore lost and confused, and you should not blame her. I don't. I blame it on the fact that it's become a norm. Whether it be casual sex or sex with someone you date when you know it's not going to be forever. However, we all make mistakes, and love gives room for acceptance. All up to you.

I agree with colourmoon. Being jealous is a natural reaction, just don't let it destroy the relationship between you two.

A past is a past, you shouldn't judge people on it (unless they are Hitler or Saddam Hussein etc)
If you really like this girl you wont let it bother you, we all have our first experiences at different times and I'm sure it would really upset her to find out you're unsure about her because of her past.

very normal, and i felt exactly the same with my first girlfriend, who, although still a virgin, had been naked with someone else prior to me. but later, when i 'grew up' and as she also told me, every experience is unique, and there is no need to suppose that just because you weren't her first, her experience with you is any less. in fact, i later realized, when i was with others, that the fact that i had been with someone else did not intrude into my current relationship at all.
and yes, if you are young, it is perfectly normal to want your gf have you for her first especially if she is your first too. kind of feels fair that way :)

if you're very bothered by the fact that your partner has a past... you may be too young to start a relationship.

i mean so what if she has a past? she's with YOU now.

although if you get upset with her over it however you may find that you end up being her past.

besides it could be worse. You could be with a girl who's only had sex with two other people, but says you're her 37th blow job...

I think you would feel more comfortable with a virgin because she holds that V card too. I would date someone that meets your requirements brah

i was jealous at first but soon got over it whn my bf said im the best at everything..he says he didnt care for all those other girls so i staydd with him becuz i was the girl tht changed his mind..uu could be the boy tht she goes crazy for...who cares if uur not her first..uu could be her best

my boyfriend was my first but i was his second and that was just a drunk one night stand, when i found out i felt hurt(it was before we had sex) and at first i imagined him with/inside someone else and i just went quiet then we talked about it after he was saying that he couldn't handle it if i had been with other people before him but in the end, it was the past and he says that im his first because that was a drunk mistake that he can barley remember

I know a girl that have done it 657 times each with a different man

Thats ur problem