Is it normal to be intrigued by this?

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I've been in love with someone for years. I got to know him when he was thirty, so I've never known what he was like when he was young, what he looked like etc. I also couldn't know; I was born when he was 17. I've only seen 2 pictures when he was around 9 years old. Those pictures didn't really intrigue me that much. But now that I have seen this baby picture of him I felt very intrigued by it. I have no clue why. Sometimes it kind of feels like I missed out on his childhood, like I should have known him then, that we should have been the same age maybe? I don't know what it is. Is it normal to feel this way? Or at least understandable? Maybe someone could help me to find an answer to my question...

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  • disthing
    10 years ago

    It's part of wanting to know somebody completely. Their childhood experiences have a great impact upon who they are. It's normal to be curious about the formative years of somebody you love :)

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  • Karmasbitch
    10 years ago

    Yeah this is underdtandable, I wished the same thing when I was with my ex.
    I actually felt jealous of the family because they got to know what my exs childhood was like and I felt I should have known her and helped her. Completely normal though.

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  • robbieforgotpw
    10 years ago

    I had a power crap this am

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  • kittykat9930
    10 years ago

    I feel the exact same way with a guy who is 29 years older than me :P Just makes me wish we were the same age and would've been best friends for years!

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    10 years ago

    Kind of creepy, but kind of understandable i guess.

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