Is it normal to be into guys with problems?

It's pretty normal, even though it's also potentially disastrous. A lot of women are attracted to these types because they have a sort of subconscious 'mothering' urge within themselves that likes to nurture others and be the one to "save" them. The problem is that a lot of people, no matter what the movies tell you, can't be "saved" with the power of love alone. Many women want to step into a guy's life and be his super-hero and look after him and care for him, and there's nothing really WRONG with that, but you should just be absolutely certain that you're REALLY prepared to take care of an individual with actual mental or behavioral issues. It's a lot of work, and not everyone is truly up for it.

So yeah, just think it over before you try. People with issues can be mentally and emotionally and physically draining on YOU as well, so make sure you really care enough about them to put in a full effort and allow them to be completely dependent on you.

well it's not normal and if u don't do this thing u must stay away from them because they could make u one of them by the time and because everyone have problem they think drugs will safe them and sort their problems and why would u need to know about ppl have only problems? the world full of nice and bad ppl but becareful of what u will choose because it may affact on ur life for every for choose carefully and change if u have mad mistake because not the drugs or drink will return anything u lost or ur problems so the only thing is to look forward and u will never see these ppl when u r looking forward because they r staying in home must of the time because they r under drugs n they connot movie so them ppl how always want to be in the pass and even our god didn't alwoud us to do that we one going forward we not going backward so think about it and move with the world or one day u will find out u r so late for the plant u r on because u spend all ur money and time on bad stuff so even if u don't believe in god u should believe in the earth and how it's runing and we should act like it or u will be left in behand for years !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If the person descided to use drugs on his own then he doesnt have a "problem" he has a moron type brain. (excluding weed because thats a plant)

'Rough around the edges' has always been my type. I like the scruffy, smudged mystery of it.
However, I'm also the 'executive' type. My boyfriend has a squeaky-clean past, and an almost metrosexual style and it stuns me.

You've a 'type,' perfectly normal. But you're right: you could have the wrong idea, so be cautious entering a relationship with those of a dishonest, tricky background.

with the last comment, I'm right there with u. my bf is a loser, no job no car and lives at home still. cool huh? ya and I have a car, a decent job and have never been none as a loser or bum. I look past this tho, for some reason it doesn't bother me besides the people who give me shit for it. I just make sure I don't out myself in the situation of him using me or me spending all my money on him. seems to be working out so far and he is job hunting so we shall see. just don't let them take advantage of you!

haha i attract these types too. i have my life in order, have a good job and car yet somehow alsways attract the no car, no job (or crappy job) having losers who either drink alot or do drugs and go to jail(minor offenses, but still) i think its because of the things im into...(heavy metal, piercings, and tattoos, liberal, open minded thinking) and guys that are into those things tend to have a crapload of baggage for some reason. but im not going to be with some preppy guy who i have nothing in common with just cuz he has a job or money. i just dont understand why i cant find a guy with common interests who isnt a total mess lol

You don't need a guy like that. Somehow, that's all I ever get. In jail, out of jail, on drugs, in rehab, on drugs again. Jail jail jail. No cars, no jobs. On of my exs works at mcdonalds. He's 22. He rides his bike to work because he doesn't drive. It's not a fun job being a losers girlfriend. They only bring you down!!