Is it normal to be into another guy, and not be gay?

It it normal that I'm a guy and I'm in love with Eric from the TV Show, True Blood on HBO, but I'm not gay? I think he "glamored" me through the TV screen. I would probably do whatever he wanted, but I'm not gay. He's the only one I feel this way about.

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  • Maybe we don't need tags, and we like what we like, who we like, for the reasons important to only us.

    And that's all that matters.

    This is not a defiance of borders as, indeed, borders do not exist.

    Like whoever you want, unapologetically. ♥

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  • MercedesBenz

    You probably just have a man crush. It is okay to slightly idolize someone. I wouldn't go as far as to say you would 'go gay' for the guy. But, if you would 'go gay', then no amount of denial will change the fact that you might be gay (really picky, but gay no less).

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  • geodetic

    This sounds like it's not even a sexual thing. I'm absolutely crazy for Johnny depp but I don't want to bone him.

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    • I'm straight, but I'd still bone Johnny.

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    • CeeMoney

      If he wanted sex I don't think I could say no. I'm crazy for him on True blood and in real life. I watch his interviews and it just makes me like him more.

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  • biguy

    I think it's normal. Maybe your bi and theres nothing wrong with that eather if he makes you feel good and your happy then why care what others think. Im bi and very proud of it.

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    • peterrabbyt2

      Why not!!! I have a nice cut 7 inch cock.

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  • Ice

    I wouldn't worry, you might just have a man-crush, which happens and doesn't change which gender you are attracted too, it's just a one off for that particular person.
    You may well have discovered that if through a whole load of chance you DID meet him and he DID want sex, that you wouldn't actually say yes, and if you did, it might just be through a desire to please him and have him like you emotionally, and you get nothing sexual out of it at all.
    You also may well be bisexual and this just happens to be the first guy you've been interested in.
    Being bisexual is completely fine.

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  • faquarl

    hahahahaha. That's the way the producers made Erik. I'd agree with you there if I weren't already bisexual... he's a piece of work.

    You're not gay. Just a mancrush... Chill with yourself and think some time if you are doing everything you want. Being true with yourself is all that matters - so if fake Erik is the only one you're into.. well.. then just like him ;)

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  • WhiteSheepOfTheFamily

    Plenty of gay guys have crushes on women. So I'm sure straight guys have crushes on men and just don't talk about it.

    Do you want to have sex with him? Otherwise, it's just an emotional attraction.

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  • peterrabbyt2

    Suck me off and I will let you know if you are any good.
    Do you swallow?

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  • Iamagirl

    Being gay is okay. So punny. But I'm cereal, you could be bisexual. Not saying you are. Idk if you are just pretending that you aren't, not willing to accept it. But it is okay, whoever judges you doesn't matter

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  • Iamagirl

    You probably just want to be him, so you "love him". I love this girl in my dance because she is pretty, talented, outgoing, fearless, etc. I don't want to DATE her, I want to be like her.

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  • Mrstr8up

    Gay!!!

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  • Scarlet_Coldbane

    You seem to like men sexually... Eric is a man and there are men, in existence, who are just as attractive, alluring, and sexy as he is. These gay men are all around you. I am not convinced that you can limit your lust to just one, unattainable HBO actor.

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  • Flying_Carpet

    My boyfriend isn't gay but there is this one guy he has a crush on xD. It doesn't really bother me because it's just an attraction thing and he'd never consider hooking up with a man.

    I actually find it quite amusing.

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  • hornygirll

    well my brother and me are very close, he was once telling me he likes to cuck cock but hes not gay, he say he likes the feeling of it in his mouth just fort id share this

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  • pyt1985

    I agree with mercedes....

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  • UnderDogg

    Na, I have thought that about guys, I think a lot of guys are gorgeous but I would never do anything with them. I love women too much.

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  • Resque200

    Why does ther have to be labels. If you enjoy it and it pleasurable to you then go with it.

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  • smitty217

    If you're "into" another guy and "would do whatever he wanted" then you're either gay or bi. Simple as that. It's not a bad thing but stop denying your feelings

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  • barter1

    Don't know how old you are, but its sounds like a starter gay crush of some sort. i mean - of all the other nice looking girls on there, you've chosen HIM to glamour you? don't freak out, coz its normal - sexuality is so diverse. If your comment mentioned one of the other female stars, I would have thought you bi - but since you didn't... you fill the gap.

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  • chaosdragoon1

    It's called admiration. Some people take it to higher levels than others.

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  • TheW1fey

    I totally agree with 'Matchbook'. Very well put! Kudos to you!

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  • writer4130

    yeah dude I think so, everyone has to find their boundaries, cuz I think "gayness vs straightness" is more on a spectrum than a black or white thing, some guys I see are more attractive than others, but if I think of doing anything with a dude I feel kinda noxious whereas chicks make my mouth water lol, but yeah you should look up some cultural anthropology stuff about cultural perceptions about gender, or take a cultural anthropology class in college, it'll put this whole subject in a completely new light for you, I highly recommend it!

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    • CeeMoney

      okay. Maybe I'll look into that. But I don't feel that way about anybody in real life lol So what's the point? haha But yeah, Eric Northman = F'ing Hot.

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      • peterrabbyt2

        You should see my cock!

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  • gako

    You're gay. Now go and shoot yourself.

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  • Slice_N_Dice

    Dude, face it. You're gay.

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  • xxxbeautifullybrokenxxx

    Not possible def bisexual

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