Is it normal to be interested in jerks?

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Is it normal to be interested in douchebags?

Im actually a really nice person. Kids and animals love me. I may come off as cold sometimes but i am actually caring and compassionate, and people seem to be at ease around me. Im optimistic and try to see the best in everyone, but im not naive.

So i've noticed that im drawn to douchebags, but not the kind of guys who only want sex or who's sole purpose is to break a girl's heart, more like guys who are cocky and mean to other people. I know its weird but i find myself drawn to people like that. I feel like deep inside, theres something worth discovering. And maybe they need a reality check, so they can know that theres no need to act so stupid. I would like to get them off their high horses.

Idk if its my compassionate nature that kicks in but i want them to help them or get to see the real them. I can just feel that theres something nice about them. Is that normal or is it just wishful thinking?

I also tend to meet many nice guys but i just dont feel anything for them. some come off as submissive and a bit too emotional or clingy. I dont like any of those traits.

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  • Anime7
    11 years ago

    You are the reason why nice guys become douchebags!

    Sure date an asshole but don't expect them to treat you kindly.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Right. im at fault for every single one of those nice guys who turn into jerks.

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      • Anime7
        11 years ago

        I should have specified, girls like you are the reason why nice guys out there turn into douchebags.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          11 years ago

          Well I'd go for the nice guys if they werent so submissive. I like confidence. its not like i go for the bad boys or anything. i like confident men who are willing to take control. i dont want to be in charge.

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          • Anime7
            11 years ago

            Alright, that sounds reasonable. You should have just said that you're submissive, but I guess I misread your post then.

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  • badcrush
    10 years ago

    You can't change them, also it's very hard to get a jerk, you're the one that has to do the chasing because they most definitely won't be asking you out on a date (because they're a jerk)

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  • Thatguy777
    11 years ago

    I can't stand girls like this. Why do guys have to be an asshole to people and put them down to get a girlfriend. I guess I'm going to die alone if that's the case.

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  • Severus'sDaughter19
    11 years ago

    Nope.

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    Chances are you cant change them so don't try.

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