Is it normal to be insecure about your worth in a relationship?

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I've been with this girl for 3 months nearly and I often feel like I either am not exciting enough for her, or I won't live up to her previous experiences with relationships. I'm as vanilla as they come and she is or has been in the past a lot more out there and "exciting" and it makes me worry she'll get bored and call it off. I know I should look forward and not back but it's difficult.

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Based on 44 votes (34 yes)
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  • Lalune
    9 years ago

    I do that. I feel like I have to compensate for being what I think is especially annoying, and I apologize way too much. I'm always scared they're going to decide I'm not good enough.

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    • (s)aint
      9 years ago

      I can relate. Big time.

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  • Dad
    9 years ago

    Ask her why she wants to be with you.
    Also at the beginning of relationships don't worry about the end. Enjoy your time with her just being you.

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  • deepthought33
    9 years ago

    I'm nervous about dating and future relationships for this reason.

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  • stankpussy
    9 years ago

    whats her ass like

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