Is it normal to be insecure about having sex?

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I want to have sex and their is a person that I want to have sex with and it wouldn't be with anybody else but him. We have strong feelings for each other and we want to be together intimately. I am deeply insecure about having sex. I even think about wearing a dress or skirt so their can be easier access. I just feel so insecure and little embarrassed. I'm a chunky person and I just don't want all my clothes to be completely off. I have never had intercourse before and I also get so insecure about the "sex smell" everyone talks about...I don't how to handle the smells that just weird I recently heard about that. what do I do?

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  • JustDave
    11 years ago

    I'll bet he's just as nervous & self conscious as you are.

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    You're overthinking it way too much. That's understandable and we all do it but if you think simple, it'll be much better/easier. I mean things like: "There's this guy I like and he likes me and we're going to do something wonderful together". The rest will take care of itself.

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    Skirt is great thought! Go for it!

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