Is it normal to be insanely jealous everyday?

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He has a history of infidelity. He says it was because he was in a long term relationship where he was really unhappy, so he constantly flirted with strangers as an escape. Now, everytime we go out, he is on the prowl, looking and flirting with women. He says it's habit.

I have tried to control my jealousy, but it just gets worse with time. Now I go from 0-65 in a second when I sense he is attracted to another woman. He is also really easily influenced by other women. For instance he used to dislike the Olympics because America always wins, now he is suddenly an avid fan because of a woman at work.

Is it normal? And if not, how do I control my jealousy? Help!

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  • dirtybirdy
    10 years ago | pl

    There are several things wrong here and I believe you may be a blind, desperate fool.

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    • Sweet_Brown
      10 years ago

      Girl I said pretty much the same damn thang and my comment got deleted!

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      You are supposed to be migrating right now.

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    I don't even understand why you are in a relationship with him. Are you just with him because you know he's going to hurt you?
    The jealousy won't help anything at all, only end the relationship that much sooner. Sounds like you are both a couple of losers to me.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    let your eyes linger on other men in his presense..SLAM!

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  • gummy_jr
    10 years ago

    If you like him or you're dating, you have a reason to be jealous. But if you have no feelings for him and aren't dating, you're wasting your time.

    Sweet_Brown could tell you that.

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  • DubstepismyMJ
    10 years ago

    I would be jealous too wth. Why would you put yourself in the situation. Have some SELF respect. Dont let a guy treat you like that. You obviously dont trust him one single bit. A relationship without trust is a doomed one.
    You guys both seem too broken to be in a relationship at this time in my opinion.

    If you dont respect yourself noone else will.

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  • toxicmiracle
    10 years ago

    Of course you have aa reason to be jealous. Like duh you're dating him. But what he's doing is wrong. Don't let him treat you like that. He's doing whatever hebwants to and here you're being depressed about this. No one deserves to be treated like this. You can't fight for his attention. Be with somone who cates about you and gives you attention.

    Take care!

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  • Smackdatho
    10 years ago

    so many passive aggressive assholes

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    **Blows significantly sized load**

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  • moomus
    10 years ago

    Habit my arse! He just wants his cake and eat it too! If he had any respect for you then he wouldn't flirt with wither women, you'd be more than enough!

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  • Araikita
    10 years ago

    Being extremely jealous daily of a mate is a red flag for me. If I can not trust the person I want to be in a intimate relationship with then they are not a boyfriend, they are simply a friend.

    Who needs the stress? Better to be in a relationship with a mate who whats to be there, and only has eyes for you.

    I would recommend not torturing yourself with the jealously stress. Especially when there are so many other men out there to choose from! Remember [ you ] are the prize, not the other way around where you must fight for attention.

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