Is it normal to be inlove with your student?

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Is it normal to like someone way too young for you, and maybe actually love him?
I had a student last year and he was a sophomore back then, we kinda flirted a little bit and maybe have fallen for this guy, but i still don't know if I actually love him. For the longest 3 months I want to move on, and forget about him, but I just kept on visiting his fb account or his instagram account to see his pictures, its torment not to be able to speak to him.

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Based on 75 votes (33 yes)
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  • ObsessedWithReedus
    10 years ago

    Just keep his age in mind. Maybe when you two are both adults it would be different.

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  • amaterasu
    10 years ago

    Student-teacher relationship... a classic in this site!

    You should really check some of the hundreds of stories about this topic in this site. Don't let all those years of kind advices from many thoughtful users go to waste!

    The only thing that I will tell you is... it is normal to love him, since he is a human being afterall... but that you should see what's the most ethical thing. Good luck.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    This is quite common but please don't try to pursue anything until he is no longer a minor and no longer a student at your school.

    Have you ever read the book or seen the movie "Notes On A Scandal". I've surprisingly am yet to read the book, I hear its great, but I have seen the film which is pretty good. Its about this art teacher who starts having an affair with the boy she was tutoring and the scandal that comes from it.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    I could've said yes but because older men who like younger women get labeled pedo on this site, I'm going to say no to cougars. It's only fair and if this gets thumbed down I rest my case.

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    • BurnaBaby27
      10 years ago

      The OP could possibly be a male too.

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  • Mersaphe
    10 years ago

    I used to like one of my teachers back in high school too. She had recently graduated college and was pretty young (but of course when you're in high school you think anyone over 20 is old). One time she dropped the chalk and bent down to pick it up (but not with her butt to the class of course). Fortunately I was at the front of the class sharpening my pencil and saw her bend over, when she bent over I saw a dragon tattoo on her lower back. Anyway long story short she was good looking, with a great personality, and a good teacher too.

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  • megadriver
    10 years ago

    Wish my economics teacher had a crush on me... Exams would be a lot easier then! :D

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  • Legion
    10 years ago

    in my junior year of high school, i had a crush on one of my teachers. She was only 7 years older, and i had a lot of one on one tutoring with her. I let it slip once, and she told me that it couldnt happen since she was a teacher and i was a student.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Scandelous...

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  • CheyChey
    10 years ago

    Scandalicious!

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    Good luck with what ever it is you decide to do.

    Just make sure it doesn't get you arrested.

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