Is it normal to be in love with your boyfriend and your husband...

This happens but by marriage u have to pick one. Get divorced or b faithful

this post pisses me off more than i can explain. get a fucking brain lady.

It is normal...if you're a tramp.

You AREN'T in love with both people. If you were in love with your husband, you wouldn't do that to him. Grow a pair and tell him you've been a TERRIBLY unfaithful woman and that you need to leave him.
I can't believe this. Wow.

NO!! NO seriously cheating is NEVER the answer. Cus 1 day he will find out and he will leave u and then everything will fall apart

It's wrong if u have a husband you should be a woman and wife to to him.not have a boyrfiend or sex friend.futher more I will also comment that you should remain faithful to your husband until your divorce is final,if you do get a divorce.after the divorce is final anybody else is game.you really should try to work thing out with you husband though.after all you did choose to marry him.

Definately divorce your husband! You've already broken his heart, he just doesn't know it. Leave him, your not giving him the love he deserves

Woman Like yu make all woman look like cheaters and tramps... and wonder what we are doing al the time and where were at thanks alot cheaten Tramp..If you dont have same feeling for your husband get a divorce and the feelings are only because you think you might just get caught some day and makes it hotter..

If you really loved your husband you wouldn't be able to so that to him for two years. End it with your husband now because obviously you marrage is not going to end up happy.

I'm sorry commenters have been so insulting to you.

Now there are two possibilities. As someone above said, you may be projecting your loneliness onto this other person, because I know ive been there and caused some awkward convos with friends.

OR, if you're really convinced you love both of them, you msg just be polyamorous, which is uncommon, but totally ok. Problem being... The fact that youve hid this from your husband so long could cause a lot of problems. Hard as it is, if you really think you may be polyamorous, you should try to talk to both parties about it, especially your husband.

You should leave your husband, but you should spare him the misery of finding out you cheated, and you should not ask for alimony because you're the one leaving him.

you can justify it all you want with you feelings but at the end of the day your doing a terrible thing to your husband sort this out coz its fucking wrong and terrible.

To be a different voice: maybe you should suggest to your husband that you change work shifts to be with each other more often. I think you are projecting all your feelings for your husband into this boyfriend. If you love your husband and respect his feelings you have to concentrate on him and leave this boyfriend. Spend time alone with your husband to rekindle your feelings. Whether you decide to tell him about the affair is your choice. But you definitely can't continue with the status quo.