Is it normal to be in love with wife and avoid my own gratification?

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I used to say a guy couldn't be in love with his own wife, but over the past 9 years I found out how wrong I was. Though we're not really young any more and I am older than she is, this beautiful asian woman is everything to me. I massage her lovely body every night and when we make love, I prefer not to climax and let her have all the fun. I know I am not attractive or virile, but we have found a way to please her, and that's enough for me. This morning her orgasm was wonderful, and I am still excited by it. I just put body lotion on her legs and feet and put her to bed and feel sooo lucky!

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  • pem24
    12 years ago

    If you have nothing to worry about not getting your own gratification, probably you're a pleaser type. But I'm curious to know how do you keep up on just satisfying her and not the both of you?
    I think ladies would also want to see and feel their men gets finished and it could be confusing if he didn't even climaxed. Does it mean he's not sexually satisfied with her at all?

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    • Alkibiades
      12 years ago

      Thank you for your question. I am certainly a pleaser and submissive, but not perfectly so. Honestly I can't accomplish what I want to. After I have refused myself satisfaction, the next day she lets me masturbate in the shower with her at my side. So the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak. There are men who can do this, especially if they are involved with a dominant bitch. For better or worse, that's not my situation. But understand that a lot of ladies make cuckolds of their husbands, mistreat them, and those husbands are quite ok with that.

      Sorry if my post was misleading.

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