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Ive been with my bf almost 2 years and for some odd reason i barely get horny for him..wat does this mean??
Either you have a low sex drive, or maybe you're just not sexually attracted to him for some reason. A good way to test this is to gauge your reaction to other attractive men. Can you get turned on by a movie star or a good-looking stranger? If not, then it's probably low libido. But if the answer is yes, then sexual passion is missing from your relationship. You seem concerned about this, so individual or couples' therapy may be a good option for you.
You sound like you are young. Trust me women start a lot later than men. They say women are at their peak in their 30's while men are at their peak around 18. Yes our sex difference can suck but we all have to deal with it.
It's normal.
Depends. Do you get more horny for anyone else? Or do you not get very horny at all?
It just means he doesn't turn you on. If this bothers you, break up. If it doesn't, then don't.
I get horny when I'm with a girl and when I'm alone, the person of interest doesn't factor into the sex drive as a persons sex drive is constantly active.
And it exists in all people, that's why people say "Oh I hate that guy, so why the hell do I want him?!"
Well it's because the sex drive is not controlled by you or your "feelings" you spastics. People just want to fuck and if you don't then kill yourself because you aren't a human being but a defective sub-species.
I'm so sick of all the bullshit people talk about love, life, feelings and how they're so different. It's bullshit and just for once it would be great for people to drop the social conditioning that has enslaved their feeble little brains.
It's normal. Relationships are something you eventually have to work at to keep them alive after the butterflies wear off.
Could be a mental block. Has he done anything to you that makes you resent him even a little?
Completely normal...plenty of products on the market to help you get in the mood...you just need to find that 'trigger' :)
i mean.. maybe he has just let himself go and isnt attractive anymore? just throwing that out there... lol
It means you wanna get laid by another man! It means you aren't turn on by him. It means that your relationship is going down hill.
Did something physical change for you recently? If you used to have more of a sexual appetite but suddenly don't, it could be something physiological. Starting the pill can do that, so if you recently started it or changed your prescription, that could kill your sex drive. So can some antidepressants and even some antihistamines.
If you've looked for underlying physical reasons for the change in your level of desire, then it's time to start thinking about what might be going on with some aspect of the relationship.
Figure out what makes you horny or make yourself horny and let him join in.
What this means, is that you are promulgating textese where it does not belong, in recalcitrance of the rules.
You need to ask yourself, are there other guys out there who sexually excite you, or turn you on? If not then it is probably a low sex drive or even a form of asexual where you aren't sexually interested in anyone. Or maybe you just don't like sex. If it isn't a problem for either of you then I wouldn't worry about it, trouble is most people would be bothered that their partner never wants to have sex. I know, I'm in the same situation as that. I have no interest in sex but my partner does.
May be tour bf dosen't know what you like or isn't good in bed? Do other men turn you on? If you're turned on.by other men n not him then he just isn't doing it right
I don't get horny for my boyfriend or anyone, honestly. You're far from alone. Who wants sex anyway? It only takes something beautiful and enchanting then turns it into all this vulgar nudity and bodily fluids. *Barf*
Well he obviously isn't doing something right or you have a low sex drive cause your young
That most certainly doesn't mean they don't love them. They are young... feelings and sexual desire isn't that stable.
She just needs to figure out why this is happen since she does worry about it. She can always figure out ways to make him more sexy.