Is it normal to be in love with two women?

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I think that it is very possible to fall in love with two different people/women at the same time. I am no means saying this is fair, but I think it is highly likely that one could have deep feelings for more then one person. I wonder if this differed for gender? Why do we only have one partner? I now that the bible is going to come up, but please have something more educated then the bible tells you so.

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  • Silkenswift
    13 years ago

    Hey! You're describing polyamory to a tee. Odds are, if you are in a progressive country you'll have a poly group near you; my city has 500 other poly people. Whether or not that's "normal" remains to be decided, but it certainly is common! I'm poly and have two boyfriends whom I love to the bottom of my heart - we have been an official "triad" for two years and are going strong! :)

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  • Racoon
    13 years ago

    I think it depends of the person. I am ''exclusive'' emotionally, I personally CAN'T love two people the same way at the same time, so I couldn't be in a ''poly-relationship'' because it doesn't work that way for me on every level. and it's not only because of moral codes... I can even tell that I love one parent and appreciate the other... it's the way I am.

    But if you can be this way than find other people that are able to love more than one person at the time and live this way , there's nothing wrong there as long as EVERYBODY knows what's going on and nobody is being manipulated ( don't have a girlfriend and cheat on her... that's what I mean).

    Just be fair to everyone.

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  • follow_me_down
    13 years ago

    Racoon is right.

    Most people only have one partner because most times they can't handle the drama/sharing between one partner, let alone two. It takes a huge honest heart to have well functioning poly-relationships. And even then its a crapshoot. Humans are jealous creatures.

    But most people are influenced by religions and hollywood so they can't shake the notion of ONE true love. I certainly can't either.

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  • Marysasa
    13 years ago

    I definitely believe that you can love multiple people, but in slightly different ways.

    My first love is not my boyfriend. Because my first love knows he can't commit. Things with him are exciting and wonderful, but we seem to have chemistry is too good: it explodes.

    My boyfriend is the person I trust and know that he will always be there for me and that I will always be there for him. Things get kind of boring, but life is stable with him and the loyalty is there.

    That's just my experience. And it sucks. But that's life.

    I love what follow_me_down said.
    Stupid Hollywood. Making people believe that there is one "true love"... and making us think that things actually work out with that "one true love".

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