Is it normal to be in love with two people, and one is your boyfriend?

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Okay, so I have been dating this guy for about 6 months now. I know I love him, (definitely not as much as he loves me) but I think I'm also in love with one of my really good friends. I know this friend of mine is in love with me too.. he tells me all the time and he says he's going to wait for me until me and my boyfriend break up. My boyfriend is really sweet, and attractive, and shows his love towards me 24/7, but we don't have very much in common and we rarely see each other outside of school. But this other guy.. every time I see him, I like him a little more. We have so much in common, he's very attractive, and the nicest, smartest kid you'll ever meet in your life. I don't know what to do. Both guys are amazing. I don't even know right now who I like more. Is this normal? Feedback is greatly appreciated.

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  • southernbarbie16
    12 years ago

    Go with the 2nd one. If you truly loved the first one, you never would've fallen in love with the second.

    On another note, you could love one as a partner, maybe the other was meant to be more of a love him like a brother

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  • opal-leaves
    12 years ago

    Oh man I can't tell you if it is or isn't normal. I guess it is because you're probably young & you're still trying to figure your bf out. See who appreciates you more or who is there for you when you;re down. That's who loves you truly. Personally, i would tell my bf how I feel because you are in fact cheating on him. Maybe not physically but emotionally. You may end up hurting him more if you do choose your friend. Talk to both of them. I know it's going to be tough but there's consequences we have to live up to when we don't do what's right :/ I wish you the best & make sure you think (with your BRAIN) things through thoroughly. Who knows, you might just be infatuated with your friend (because he's something you can't have a the moment). Make sure you communicate how you feel do. Communication is the key to everything. If you truly love your bf you wouldn't have to choose your friend over him

    Best Wishes,

    S.

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    You run a very large risk of loosing them both. Be careful and be honest with yourself and them!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    go with your heart but don't lie to either of them

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  • 8Serene8
    12 years ago

    No no no no no.

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