Is it normal to be in love with someone who doesn't know ur alive?

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Ive had a crush on my brothers best friend since I was 8. And I've been in love with him since I was 12. I am now 18 I can't get him out of my head I even dream about him. The problem is it feels like he doesn't even know I'm alive. And in a way that's good because if he doesn't know than he can't make fun of me for it. I also don't feel pretty or smart enough for him, so in a way I'm happy for him when he's in a relationship with a really pretty and smart girl, but I still cry myself to sleep wanting him to be with me. The question is what do I do?

Please help!!
Thanks!

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  • iamraerae
    12 years ago

    Yes it is normal ask him out if ya want him sooooooooo bad

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  • Anime7
    12 years ago

    I'm sorry but this doesn't like love, rather infatuation. If you want this guy then take a chance and ask him out. Keep telling yourself positive things so you can work up the nerve to do it. The only thing holding you back is yourself.

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Ask him out. He will go so he can fuck you and put another notch on his belt. Make sense. Blow him too so he can see you with his spunk on your face.

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  • Garcia3040
    11 years ago

    I know how you feel I have had a crush on this guy but I know I'm not his type cuz his last girlfriend was really pretty! I'm not anything like her and I just really like him but I know it will most likely never be!:( he is really funny and nice but I am really shy and I don't think he knows I even exist!

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  • coolio75650932
    12 years ago

    your brothers best friend? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm are you a character from family guy ummm meg was it?

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  • Gir_loves_cupcakes
    12 years ago

    Yes it's normal it's infatuation it's like your first love when you find the right guy you won't be so obsessed with him and cry over him you might still think of him but not feeling the same . You could either wait for another guy or tell him how you feel and take a risk he might feel the same way if he doesn't don't over react because he's not the only guy in the world

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