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He is two years older than me but we talk/hang out way more than my sister and him do. I'm starting to get feelings but I don't want to hurt my sister. I feel so attached to this guy.... I don't know when we first met the energy between me and him was almost.. electric. So is it normal?!
If he's hers then you already know the right answer.
What it really sounds like is that you're trying to convince yourself that it's OK to do this.
It might not be mainstream, but what is so bad about it. I clicked Normal.
I think you should get him in a room and chop his penis off it the only way to be sure.
I agree with Anime7. It's odd that he spends more time with you then he's own girlfriend... Don't try anything with him and don't let him try anything with you.
I'd also like to add, my sister took my now ex boyfriend from me, that was about 4 years ago, and I still think she's a bitch. Might want to NOT DO IT.
Prettty sure everyone that's posted so for has got it right. :/ This sounds like a bad guy
Agreed with Anime7. It's a concern that he spends more time with you than her, but that's your sister and if you try to make a move on him, it could haunt you for years to come. I have a sister as well, but the age difference is so great that this doesn't apply much to me. My husband is 7 years older than me and I am 7 years older than her. In other words, he is 27 and she is 13. Too much pedophilia for him... game over.
But as I was saying... men come and go but she will be your sister until you're both dead. That's a long time. And if he leaves your sister for you, that also makes him a dirty little Charlie Sheen. Women often fail to ask themselves the questions that they should be asking, like
"Would I date a guy that left a girl for her sister?"
Yeah I agree with above poster. Stay away from him, he sounds suss to me. Your sister will probably get hurt by this guy and it's better if your not in the situation at all!
The fact that he spends more time with you and not your sister kind of worries me. I don't think that he is a great guy for doing that. If anything, I think that you should just stay away from this guy so that your sister doesn't get hurt, although I'm guessing it's going to happen either way.