Is it normal to be in love with my sister?

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My older sister and I were both addopted out at a very young age, and I have recently met her for the first time. The moment I saw her, I felt an instant connection. I talk to her and try to be around her whenever I can, even if it means going extremely out of my way. She is funny, gorgeous, has an amazing personality, and has a very soothing voice. I live a long distance away from her, so I can't see her very often, but when I can, I feel relaxed and over joyed. I mean, even her flaws bring me joy. I would even give my life if it meant saving hers. Since I met her, I have wanted to tell her how I feel, but can't get the courage to do so and worry that it may be too late when I finally do. Is it normal for me to love my sister in this way and should I just tell her how I feel about her? Please, this has been eating me up and I really need all the help I can get.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Is your sister an adopted sister or a biological one?

    I am not sure, to be honest. Perhaps because you two didn't get raised together as brother and sister that it could be normal for you to 'like her'.

    Pretty sure separated at birth twins have even got married without knowing they are brother and sister.

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    • 5687q
      11 years ago

      Full blooded sister. I know its normal for me to "like her" as in sexual attraction due to a theory called GSA. However, I'm more than just sexually attracted to her.

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      • Couman
        11 years ago

        From the few stories I heard I get the impression that's exactly what GSA is like. It's not just sexual. That "instant connection" feeling seems to be part of it. Or perhaps it would be more accurate to call it "Genetic Attraction" and say the sexual aspect is only part of it.

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        • 5687q
          11 years ago

          Also, do you think I should tell her how I feel?

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        • 5687q
          11 years ago

          Wow, I have spent atleast 12 hours in total reading about GSA, but never thought of it that way. Thank you so much. I was trying to work up the balls to tell her yesterday, but I think I got rejected before I could.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Mutant babies?

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    • 5687q
      11 years ago

      I'm not talking about sexual attraction, as I already know that is normal in siblings who were seperated at a young age.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    I'm guessing your sister knows the taboo aspect of this, and doesn't see you as a potential lover. That's my opinion. You could tell her what you're feeling, I don't think she will respond to those feelings the way you want her to, but it will get a huge weight off your back and allow you to hopefully move on. She might like you to though, who knows.

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    • 5687q
      11 years ago

      I already know that she has sexual feelings towards me. As I told NeonLighterz, this is not about sexual feelings.

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      • ccjigsaw
        11 years ago

        I didn't say it was sexual. However, if you are saying you love your sister in a girlfriend/boyfriend sort of way, and she wants you sexually. Then consider this same situation with a girl who wasn't your sister. What would you do? There's your answer.

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        • 5687q
          11 years ago

          This was actually really helpful & has put SOME of my nerves about telling her the next time I see her to rest. Thank you jigsaw.

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  • NotFloydzie
    11 years ago

    I don't think this is normal, but that's only my opinion. I once saw on TV where a father and daughter were connected after the mother of the daughter gave her for adoption. Both of them adults when they got in contact. After a while according to the both of them they fell in love with one another, although they are father and daughter. So it might not be normal, but it happens.

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  • NeonLighterz
    11 years ago

    Incest is the best, put your sister to the test.

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    • 5687q
      11 years ago

      Lol, I'm not just talking about sex though.

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      • NeonLighterz
        11 years ago

        "just talking about". So you do want to have sex with her. You sick fuck.

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        • 5687q
          11 years ago

          I'm not the kind of person to lie.

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          • NeonLighterz
            11 years ago

            That's really disgusting. Get help dude.

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