Is it normal to be in love with my friends fiance

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ok where to start first off i am in love with my best friends fiance he has told me he was bi in the past and still has feelings for guys but he won't never do that with any guys because he really loves my best friend he will joke around with me about it and will try to play fight i have tried making passes at him by putting my hand on his stomach and even putting my fingers down the edge of his pants and he doesn't seem to tell me to stop then one day i asked him if he would like to go fishing and get away just the two of us i told him that way we could talk and open up to one another he said he cant do that to his fiance and that nothing would happen i am madly in love with this boy i had a crush on him since i first met him and i think he knows that he says he had feelings for me to and every time i see them kiss or anything like that it drives me absolutely crazy because i want that to be me hes kissing now her i don't know what to do i keep hoping something would happen i know i shouldn't do anything with him because hes her fiance and i don't want to lose her as a friend but at the same time im madly in love with this guy it hurts so bad when i watch them be lovey dovey anyways can anyone give me some advice as far as to what to do in this situation thanks for taking the time to read this.

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  • Who_Fan4Life
    12 years ago

    Are you honestly kidding me? That was like trying to read through Hieroglyphics while BEING Egyptian.

    Do you even know what periods are? Commas? Apostrophe's? Common sense...?

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  • karmasAbich
    12 years ago

    Sneak into his bedroom, put some candles around the room and some easy music, get some oil and strip naked and lay on your side acrossed the bed and when he walks in start rubbing yourself and say "chow so cold, you want fuck on me?"

    Guaranteed freaky time.

    That picture in my mind was disgusting.
    Your a disgusting person.
    Thought it would go together...

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  • alvon33
    12 years ago

    sure, if you want to ruin there lives, there chance having a peaceful family. you might ruin there kids lifes if they ever get to having one! go ahead! i would..

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    12 years ago

    ^You beat me to it.

    @OP: You need to leave the guy alone. If you were his Fiance, you would not appreciate another man/woman trying to make passes at him. You are disrespecting him and his fiance by continuing to make passes at him and it needs to stop. I understand that you love him but from what you said, he has obviously made his choice and has chosen her. You need to get over it and move on, there will be other men. Continuing to pine for him will only hurt you and cause issues for everyone later on down the road, and really, do you want to be that selfish guy?

    I highly doubt that continuing to make passes at him and potentially ruining his relationship will make him love you any more. Just let it go.

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