Is it normal to be in love with my best friend?

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I've fallen in love with one of my best friends (girl). I used to date her sister and she used to date one of my friends. We have always been quite flirty with each other even then.

I love everything about her, we like the same things, I think she looks great even when she has just woken up. However, we now live about 4 hours away from each other and I haven't told her how I feel and am not sure if its worth it as we will hardly see each other.

Should I tell her how I feel?
Is it wrong on her sister or my friend?

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Based on 29 votes (28 yes)
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  • asscake
    13 years ago

    I dated one of my good guy friends and it was soo weird cuz of how good of friends we were

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  • clockitq
    12 years ago

    so normal.

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  • theonewiththehair
    13 years ago

    I've learned through experience that when you have feelings for one of your friends you basically have 2 choices.

    1)Tell her. Believe me when I say that the pain of trying to hide your feelings for someone and still being their friend is worse than rejection. At least rejection comes with closure.

    2)Distance your self from her. You're not going to get over her while you're still talking to her. I was friends with a guy who didn't love me back for a good year and I was never able to get over him.

    As for the friend and her sister, that really depends on the situation.

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  • TaylorRae17
    13 years ago

    you should tell her, its totally normal , i am dating my best friend. (a guy im a girl , lol) but yes its normal , Me and my best guy friend , had everything in common , i dated his cousin , and he actually dated my best friend twice, but i love him all the same. Tell her!

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