Is it normal to be in love with a racist family?

Ignore the huge comment. Its normal, you love this girl. And youre putting up with assholes cs shes the one you care about. Rest easy

thats a shame you dont have the benefit of having another family together, oh well

She is obviously not like her family. Personally if I were you, I wouldn't waste my time eating with these people or being in their company.

It took me many years to learn, not to waste any time in my life being with people who are not good for me!

They are wasters!

It's normal. You love the girl but don't support her family's views. There's nothing wrong with that. Just don't bring friends of other ethnicities around them.

I'm guessing you ain't an hispanic or an african american or a japanese/chinese/mahori/caucasian hybrid,otherwise they wouldn't be talking crap about these guys in front of you,now would they?
So what the hell do you care?
They have a racist wiev of the world so what?
If you really have troubles about it,if it troubles you so much,try explaining to them why they shouldn't.Try giving them a reason not be or to be less racists.If you can.If it really gets on your nerves so much.Personally,if they are the real deal,I doubt you will ever be able to do that.You'll never convince them that they are:"just like other people" or any other nonsense you might come up with.To them,it would be simply nonsense.Unless you are planning to use some trick,to actually get them to believe whatever you want,bypassing their own beliefs.Show them a statistic telling them that black guys and hispanic guys aren't overcrowding jails all over the country.
Try telling them that they aren't in fact the guys who committ most crimes and have the most dangerous lifestyles.Try giving them sound data proving that most gangs aren't either hispanic or mexicans or african american or asians or Italians.I do not bother you for being a so called tolerant and racial equality believing fool,so you should not bother me for being what you call a racist.It's simple.These people will keep on existing and having reasons,totally understandable reasons to be racists,till these people don't prove them wrong. And they probably never will.Not anytime soon.So shut your trap and respect their point of wiev.
How many times you hear black guys talking shit about white guys and chinese guys talking shit about mexicans, and so forth? Do you go tell them not to be racist? Well don't tell it to me then.Don't you fucking dare.
This is basically the type of result you'd get out of them if you try to make them feel bad about "talking crap" of different races.
Racism is everywhere.You can't just take it out of the equation by shutting up whoever has a bad opinion of a different race.Also because it isn't just about race.It's about behavior,it's about anything that might make you different from me.There are things people cannot accept about other people whther they are black/white /yellow/red/jew or whatever.And to me it doesn't make much difference whether you are shitting on my skin color or my cultural heritage or my behavior.It doesn't make any fucking difference goddamn it!What? as long as what you hate about it isin my brain not all over me,noit's not my skin,then suddenly you are not a racist?That's bullshit!and you all fucking know it! I had no more chance to choose the way my brain would function than a black guy had to choose the color of his skin!
But you shit on me because I'm weird and get away with it, but If I shit on a black guy or somebody who doesn't behave the way I,I,consider normal,then:I'm a racist.
Well fuck you!

It's enough eric cartman,now calm down and go get yourself some KFC.