Is it normal to be in love with a person only based off their voice?

I'm a 21 year old female and for the last 8 years of my life, I've been completely consumed with a certain male singer. I've never been in love with anyone before besides this man just based off of his voice that melts me. He's never shown his face in public and hasn't revealed his real name. I've only seen glimpses of his jaw, ears, and hair that he posts on Instagram. I've stared at these small features for hours to where I could point him out in a crowd if I wanted to. He lives in Japan and I deduced that he's less than 10 years older than me. I've come to the point where Ive been tempted to illegaly find where he lives. I need to know more about him. I listen to him every morning when I wake up and fall asleep to his voice. On the way to work I'm playing his songs in my car. He's even in my dreams. Im thinking about getting his username tattooed on myself. I can't stop thinking about him. I would give anything to hear his voice in person. Is this normal?

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  • dimwitted

    Your obsession is preventing you from having a relationship with a real guy.

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    • RoseIsabella

      I agree wholeheartedly with what you are saying here!

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  • Listening to his songs, following his Instagram...perfectly normal.

    Getting his name inked into your flesh and going to Japan to hunt him down...obsessed stalker.

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  • RoseIsabella

    What you have described is not love, but obsession. I think the fact that you have fixated such a laser sharp obsession on this person is a symptom of a much greater problem. I think you have a fear of genuine intimacy, and a fear of committment which is why you you are so obsessed with a person who is the very definition of unavailable.

    This person doesn't want your stalking, or harassment, because otherwise he wouldn't present himself as such a mysterious, and seemingly anonymous figure. I'm sure this artist is probably already married with a family, and greatly values his privacy. You need to get a grip, and learn to live in reality.

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  • controversy

    Beware, he may have tentacles also.

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  • WashYaDoggy

    Who is it?

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  • leggs91200

    I think you would probably be mortified if you saw his face or met him real life.

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