Is it normal to be in love with 2 people at the same time?

I have two guys in my life i care so much about. The first guy lost contact with me for a while and i met the second guy. Now he is back, asking to work things out knowing that i was the reason he left in the 1st place, i won't be able to drop any of them if asked to choose. Is it normal to feel this way?

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Based on 67 votes (56 yes)
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  • Avant-Garde

    I read the "now he's back" part as "now he's black", which would have been quite a change.

    A while ago, I had feelings for two people but after some serious thinking I realised that only had feelings for one of them. You need to do the same. Ask yourself Who you really love, though it should already be obvious... For whomever you don't pick, politely let them know.

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  • BurnaBaby27

    You're not in love with both of them.

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  • Hamid37USA

    It is only ok for the man in the name of the law. I hope you are not put down for your sake.

    Love,
    Hamid Al-Dhabaan

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  • gummy_jr

    You can never TRUELY love two people at once... I dont know why people think they can.

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  • StarTeddy

    It's normal, though most people reject is as not normal. Being in an honest, loving relationship with more than one person is called polyamory, but it's definitely not for everyone. Most people can't deal with the jealousy when their partner also loves someone else.

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  • LittleMissy

    I have loved two people at one time so it is possible. Doesn't make it fair or right though.

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  • ygrowup

    The heart is large enough to love more than one, but it seldom works for long. You to really ask yourself who you can be happy with and who you can do without! Good luck with your choices

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  • fullhouse

    Offcourse it's not normal! What is wrong with people? I keep giving my everything to you while you share what's meant for me with other guy? Fuck this

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