Is it normal to be in love but with someone you dont think is hot

Looks fade...he has what counts. Good for you!

Stay with him he sounds like a great guy that will treat you right. If you want some asshot that people think is hot or cute go back to your ex or someone else, don't give up on something that good without a real reason.

I'm going to be honest with you instead of treading out these bullshit "looks dont matter" lines that everyone else is coming out with just cuz they WANT it to be true. If you arent attracted to a guy, you can't stay with him. If by "not hot" you mean "not conventionally attractive" but he still turns you on and you're attracted to him, thats one thing. If by "not hot" you mean, you dont find him physically attractive, you need to leave it. Youll find other guys who treat you nice who you are attracted to. Ive been in the same situation and it is so tough. I wish you all the best.

Men also get hotter with age. Do you want a trophy or a good guy?

show you are not shallow . Its what inside that counts .

Don't listen to your stupid friends....If you are happy with you current BF stay with him regardless of how he looks.Your friends are a bunch of jealous jerks because they see you happy and not miserable like the are.This is your life not theirs tell them (and your ex) to go to hell!

What's more important to you? The - in your words - amazing relationship you have with a person or superficial appearances?

I suppose it can be hard when your friends are making fun of you because your boyfriend isn't "hot" enough, but that's just silly. Looks aren't everything.

Looks matter... You absolutely have to be attracted to him physically.

Looks are nothing infact - goodlooking men can be hard to keep.. women always want them. If he makes you feel special and loved omg you found the one

Looks arent everything....infact looks determine nothing.

I realize it! And if you really love him, it won't be long before you get used to the way he looks and start to love that too because it's associated with all the other good things about him in such a special way.

Dont complain about something then later on complain that you dont have a guy thats all about making you feel good.

Am i the only one who realises that usualy the good looking people are the bastards and the good guys are ugly and yet girls seem to complain about them both?

I'm a guy and I would tell you exactly the same thing stay with him... My current girlfriend :::almost a year : )::: seen a picture of my ex who is really beautiful and asked whyI left her to be with her... I told the sex was great but the emotions weren't we weren't couplely if you wanna put it that way... But with my current she's the most beautiful thing in my world in every way ; )... My friends say I downgraded but yet they don't have anyone who loves them the way she loves me...

Actually, in time he will be awsome looking in your eyes. Good looks only go so far.

I have one just like this.They tend to treat you better an actually love you.I love mine :)

You need to be physically attracted somehow otherwise your sex life will fail hard.

^^^^ very true. Agree.