Is it normal to be in love but not want to be with the person?

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I've been in a abusive long distance relationship past one and half year, which led me into depression. Eventually though my boyfriend left me because of my depression saying I was a burden on him. However even after we broke up he said he do give us try once I was better. Me being in love with him agreed at once. Past four months he's been controlling my life with very little to say no love and care from his end only orders. Recently I lost my patience and questioned him that if he controlled my life caz he loved me why didn't he ever fever losing me or express any emotions even unconsciously,this pissed him off and he has broken all contact with me.
Earlier this would make me cry and be depressed but today it doesn't make a difference I'm used to this loneliness and useless feeling.
I love him but I don't feel like being with him caz he do only hurt me. I dunno what is this ironical feeling. It's confusing me.

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Based on 28 votes (11 yes)
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  • StrangeTiger
    12 years ago

    This guy is an asshole. My girlfriend had an abusive ex, but it was physical. I love my girl like he never did, and I never ever mistreat her. Trust me, there are much better guys out there for you. Especially ones you can see IN PERSON. break it off, as hard as it sounds, and find a guy you can see often who loves you. you'll know you've found the right person when they love you and treat you the same as you love and treat them.

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  • Fadina
    12 years ago

    normal to love someone and not be with them not normal is your situation leave him and find a better man!

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  • SweetSherry
    12 years ago

    You should be relieved he's out of your life he does not love you at all if he did he would have helped you through your depression not say you're a burden he's gonna hit the road just forget about him and move on

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  • nanimeow
    12 years ago

    I would honestly try to find someone else. You can fall in love with someone that will treat you well. You can't do this if you stay hung up on this guy.

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