Is it normal to be in a situation where...

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Well it's not really a is it normal question but it'd be nice to get some advice! ( and the drama begins) so my one friend likes this guy, but I secretly like him too (she only has one class with him and I have 5) when I'm alone around him he always tells me that he is freaked out by her and doesn't like her. But my other friends talked to him and they say that he says he has a crush on her. And he tells me all this stuff and then I'll ask him a question and he always immediately changes the subject. He always acts different when we're around her... I'm sorry this is a bit long and I don't mean to sound jealous ( I promise) but ya, just dk what to do or what to thinks of it... So if you be so kind as to help me out that would be sweet!! THANKS SOOOO MUCH!!! ;D

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    Sounds to me like he has a crush on both of you. That is why he will tell her other friends that he likes her but he will not admit it to her, he doesn't want you to stop flirting with him!

    Either that, or her friends are lying to her to make her build up the courage to ask him out. (will end poorly) Either way it sounds like he likes you.

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  • samalander
    11 years ago

    One last thing... Idk, maybe he's lying or my friends are lying ( which I hope not!) But ya.. I don't know what to think of it !! ;)

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Forget about him. Distance yourself as much as possible from this situation! Either he's a two faced manipulative liar or your friends are lying. Regardless this is not a good scenario; just teenaged drama fo yo mama. Be smart and avoid the bullshit.

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  • NerdyChickFTW
    11 years ago

    Yeah, it's normal. He probably likes both of you, but he'd rather not come in between your friendship.

    If I were you, I'd talk to my friend about it, and come to some sort of an agreement. If you can't decide on who should pursue and who should give up, it would be better if you both just gave up.

    I mean, who wants to ruin a friendship over some random guy?

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