Is it normal to be in a relationship with a man but fantasize about women

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So I've been in the same relationship for years, since I was 16 with a man and I'm a woman.

But all I think about lately is women. Like constantly. I feel torn. Half of me is happy in this relationship but half of me wants to be single and date women. Do other people feel like this?

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  • Fionalady
    4 years ago

    Sometimes I date and desire to be single. Its normal eventually fantasizing with someone else or desiring other people.

    If it's too strong, maybe you should try having sex with a girl in secret to see if it's just lust.

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  • DDJenny
    4 years ago

    Totally normal. And if that desire is strong enough, I encourage you to explore it. Depending on your relationship, that exploring could be with or without him.

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  • bigchuck1
    4 years ago

    Do you fantasize and imagine you are having sex with another woman (kissing softly/avoiding his facial hair, rubbing his balls n ass imagining its a womans vagina, etc..? I suspect my 43 year old gf does this.

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  • Groots
    4 years ago

    Have a threesome

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  • dimwitted
    4 years ago

    Ask your man if he would mind bringing another woman into your bed?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      I've talked to him about it and hes either too shy/ too jealous. It's a bummer

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  • Doesnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    Yeah that's a thing. Not sure what you can do tho.

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