Is it normal to be in a relationship of 3 year without sex?

From ages 19-22 is this normal or not?

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37% Normal
Based on 410 votes (150 yes)
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Comments ( 29 )
  • well if you're both virgins yes, if not no not at all

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    • Hoppy2142

      sex is for marriage and your wife, even i understand that and im 14, the purpose is to bring each other back together and also for a family not to use each other every week

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  • Avant-Garde

    It depends on the situation? Are you virgins? Are you religious? etc.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    You've only provided the ages. So... who the hell knows?

    Can't tell if one of the partners wants to wait until marriage.
    Or if there's STDs in the mix
    Or if there's a distance factor.
    Or if one of you is living with Mommy & Daddy still.

    So... you'll have to answer this yourself i guess?

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    • Abnormalgirl

      I agree so much babe

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  • sharnise92

    My boyfriend is not a virgin and we been together for 6 years and not once have we had sex.

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  • topper33

    id say find someone who really turns you on then youll have sex

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  • BlueAlice

    Only if one or both of you are abstinent, asexual or you two are wildly sexually imcompatible.

    Otherwise, NO NO NO! You need to experiment and end things now!

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  • Suomiman

    Completely normal. If you're asexual or celibate.

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  • prasatko

    If one´s partner´s gender is incompatible with sexual orientation of the other partner OR if both are asexuals, then maybe.

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  • pamEla97

    Yes as long as youre both virgins . Some people hav morals for waiting till marraige

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  • gunky17700

    The Titanic is calling you

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  • AsTheDaysGoBy

    I would go crazy.

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  • WordWizard

    Yes, why wouldn’t it be?

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  • zyxwxxx

    It's normal.

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  • joeydangerously

    Hmm 3 years does seem like a while unless there is some underlying issue here a bit atypical. If its mental on one or both parts that'a separate issue altogether. Sex is like a fire typically once you light it.....lets just say the flame doesn't die unless something else is at play ya know.

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  • HugeJohnson

    Prostitutes are better than girl friends for this very reason.

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  • Silentnight

    I don't think its normal. Thats just my opinion.

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  • littleboyblue

    Very abnormal

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  • Ryan556

    If you had parents like mine you would think its normal i had sex at a young age but my family was religius not normal for me but I was a kid in a town with 20 kids including me there were girls that hadent had a bf yet

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  • IrishPotato

    It depends, really.

    There are alot of different factors in play here.
    - Was he/she mollested?
    - Is he/she waiting for the right person or moment?
    - Maybe one of you (probably your partner) is waiting for marriage?
    - Does your partner have an STD, and is afraid to tell you?
    - Is your partner afraid that you'll judge him/her because he/she thinks something is wrong with his/her's privates?
    - Maybe he/she is asexual?

    If for whatever reason your partner doesn't want to, or doesn't feel ready, then perhaps you should talk to your partner about it. And if so, please don't enforce it.
    I know you want sex, but it's normal.

    Losing your virginity is not restricted to age, and you should respect your partners choices.
    Because before you know it he or she will have sex with you out of guilt for not giving any, and he/she'll feel terrible about it. And you don't want that, do you?

    Long story short, you should ask him/her.
    Communication is REALLY important ^^.

    Goodluck.

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  • Lynxikat

    Like some of the other people said, we need more information than the ages.

    Are you both virgins? Are either of you religious? Does one of you have an STD? Were either of you molested as a child and now have a strong fear of sex?

    It all depends on the situation.

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  • ccjigsaw

    If you're fine with it, why not?

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  • andreth

    perfectly normal if you're Muslim.

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  • TonybigCock

    have you washed your bits?

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  • randypete

    sex is part of a relationship

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  • Mmmpfh

    Not normal but don't think there's anything wrong with it. I've been in the same situation!

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  • bryinand

    i could not do it sorry

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  • zackattack

    Maybe if you're really religious then yes. However, if she's just not ready than no.

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