Is it normal to be in a relationship, but to have other small sparks?

im with this amazing girl who i love dearly. but i dont understand why i still kind of like a few other girls. most of them are really close girl friends or a few old crushes, and i want to stay loyal so im not doing anything with them but i dont know if its normal or not

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  • thegypsysailor

    It seems that your relationship with "this amazing girl who i love dearly" is yours to screw up and you are probably headed that way.
    Are you so insecure about this relationship that you are keeping back up players on the sidelines? Choose.

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  • Barracuda

    youre probably just infatuated with the other girls, or maybe they a certain "spice" ur girl doesnt have

    one of my married friends once told me how bored she was with her husband. that sex with him was just boring, typical, she needed to change it up a bit she said, and that she had crushes on other men in her life. but of course she claimed she still loved her husband.

    ive heard this before. Normal?

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  • kelili

    Just don't cross the border with any other girl if you want to keep this relationship going.

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  • cupcake_wants

    you're probably not ready to settle down. whatever you do don't get her pregnant

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  • mixwell

    Welcome to human nature. No matter how much you love someone you're always going to be curious with the "grass is greener" syndrome. It's natural instinct to look for the best partner even if you're happy with your current one.

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