Is it normal to be in a relationship and not trust urself?

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I am a young man who tries his
best to stay away from committed relationships. Why? To be honest i don't trust my self ,Im afraid i constantly think about cheating on my girl but i never follow through.But the just the thought of not being faithful is enough to make me end the relationship. I dont mind having a female friend with "benifits",I perfer it that way no gets hurt but they always eventualy begin to have feelings. Im attracted to dishonest freaky women because i can't emotionly hurt them because they are already bruise and saturated with gult. The only thing my past girl friends and i shared was SEX. Good women are always drawn to me so in response i ignore them because i feel i would only make them like heartless and scorn and give other guys a hard time. Is it normal to not trust urself within a relationship? I have cheated a fewtimes. Is it possible to have a relationship based on sex and mutual benifits for both ppl invovled and or finicial support and a false sense of stability?

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Based on 37 votes (22 yes)
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  • Who_Fan4Life
    12 years ago

    What is 'urself' ?

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    • P02apl4aKEnpokid
      12 years ago

      My ways my urges because Only I know how bad I am i guess

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I can see what you mean. In all honesty you seem aware of your flaws as a boyfriend. Most people that cheat in a relationship don't even feel regret but you however do. If anything I think that you should find someone who had their relationship broken because they cheated, that way your both in the same boat. I really don't think your a bad person just someone who's made a lot of mistakes.

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