Is it normal to be hurt ...?

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This way? I work with my family, I'm meant to be being learnt how to take the Business over, however my cousin can't do anything wrong. And when he does it isn't his fault and never gets told off I have to put it right. He does things and my family talk about it for weeks I do something it goes unnoticed. Yeh I am jealous my dad never notices my work but his . He talks to me very angry and with a tone in his voice I don't like, he never shows me how to learn things and is always being pushy :'( like I'm the worker and my cousin is higher than me.

I break down a lot, I'm left out a lot. I feel alone and hurt :( and I don't know what to do

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    If you are feeling this bad about your working situation, then I think you should get another job. This will either solidify your cousin's position or show your father how important you are there. Either would work for me, as I would have no interest in being somebody's flunky, at my dad's company or anywhere else.

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  • Darkoil
    8 years ago

    Stop being a little bitch and take it like a man, don't come crying to a bunch of strangers on the Internet. Learn how to use the word learn correctly as well.

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    • israelkeyes
      8 years ago

      My thoughts exactly.

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  • kelili
    8 years ago

    I would never have ben able to work with my d'adresse. He's too bossy.
    Maybe they encourage your cousin because he has less skills than you. I don't know.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Have you ever talked to your mother or father about this issue regarding your cousin? Does your cousin live with you and your immediate family? I did grow up with a couple of cousins who lived nearby, but I can't imagine being so enmeshed with extended family members that anything your cousin would do would be somehow your responsibility. I vaguely remember my mother sometimes gossiping about my cousins, and what they were up to, but she very rarely shared anything about about my sister and i with our aunts and uncles. My mother certainly never shared anything negative about us with them, and saw it as our private business.

    I am curious as to whether this could possibly be some sort of cultural issue.

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